KiyoSama's Topics (25)

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Why?

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because he's trans... even if he said that he loves her he still wanted to kiss Meme's boss... maybe he loves her in the same way someone loves their friends or idk...

I just feel like both of them deserve better.

??? I though he was gay.. not trans...???

I'm not sure if I should explain the difference between sexuality and gender identity or just point out that Ryou thinks of himself as a woman, he likes being feminine, dresses in his sister's clothes whenever he can and was jealous of Sawako for being able to give birth.

that is trans, He's a woman in a man's body.

That is why Meme said that she didn't care if Ryou was a woman or a man, she was in love.

uh... I don't think so bud. I understand the difference between sexuality, gender and sex but Ryou isn't trans, he's just gay. Stereotypically gay, maybe, but he's just gay. I mean, being feminine doesn't equate to being trans... And he's jealous of Sawako cause she married his crush easily while Ryou has to deal with the fact that no matter how hard he tries, Kishida will never love him. Memeko says that she doesn't care because she's just grateful that Ryou tried to love her and couldn't, which still gave closure. Also in Chp 62, Sawako mentions that Ryou doesn't have a choice, unlike Kishida who can just settle with someone who likes him and slowly learn to love, Ryou can't just fall in love with Memeko. I'm all about trans representation like in Kanojo ni Naritai Kimi to Boku but I just think that for Ryou, this isn't the case.

Tbh, this is probably way too much of an overreaction of a comment, but it's just cause Ryou sorta reminds me of myself, cause being gay means that a lotta times you're going to fall in love with straight people and there's literally nothing you can do. It sucks so much, especially cause a lot of times there's no rejection, no closure and you just have to keep it inside until you eventually forget it....

Yeah, I see that now, I miss interpreted Ryou because he said that he's a woman.
I thought that he identifies as female and therefore he's trans.
also thought that he was over Kishida.

but now that I read the updates I see that that wasn't the case.

this manga is a little bit too complicated... and I like it, Life if a bit like that (as you say, not being able to have closure, or not marring the person you fell in love with) but it also goes a bit too far, is almost like a soap opera.

I don't know... I still think that it's sad to marry someone because they love you. Maybe because Japanese people are used to arranging marriages and it's part of their culture. that this... settling for someone that loves you and learn to love them back thing is... ok? to me is just sad.

They all need therapy. no body should marry a person while loving someone else.

yeah

Not really, a ton of female dogs also lift one of their back legs to pee, is not uncommon at all. And I've seen male dogs pee sitting down, mostly the ones that have been neutered or that grew up around only female dogs

I know, two of my dogs also lift one of their hind legs when they pee, but it's a kind of awkward one-legged squat instead of a full leg lifting as Pommette did.

this comment was much more interesting for me than the actual manga (≧∀≦) sorry, I just like your comment. I will go now

No, my dog is a dude and he pees sitting down.

is he an adult dog? is he castrated? if so when was he castrated?

another one of my dogs is male and he was castrated when he was 8 months, he's 15 months now (if I recall correctly) and he still pees sitting down but he's pretty much an overgrown puppy.

anyway, I still haven't seen or heard of a female dog that lifts their leg to pee as Pommete did, maybe it's not that weird I don't know.

exactly it depends on how they grew up mostly. male dogs that only have sisters and mom will probably grow up peeing sitting down(or are simply most attached to them). Same happens the other way around.
almost all my life i had Male dogs. and when we got a female one. (she was a baby). she grew up learning from them so she raises her leg most of the time. of course that habbit might dissapear as they grow up because they end up seeing other dogs on the street and learning the 'right way' from them(or the 'wrong way' xD).it really isnt rare. u might not notice because mostly people dont know which genre is a dog on the street. we just assume their genre ╮(￣▽￣)╭...
Just like most people assume my Female dog (shes all black and big so she looks a bit intimidating) is a male. shes already 5 years so we have lost the patience to correct it and just laugh.

but this might happen with a castrated or not dog. it doesnt really make a difference. they go with what they like most (⌒▽⌒)

Castration is the removal of the sex gland. You mean neutered.

Never heard of that word before. English is not my native language so... ok if you say so.

¿Cómo diablos se pronuncia eso?

It’s pronounced new-tered. I took Spanish in high school but that was ages ago lol. I figured you didn’t understand which is why I said something. When you use the word castrate, it’s very harsh and has a very negative and violent meaning.

oh, ok, thanks.
Where I live is a common term, "Castrar" even though the procedure is not exactly a castration (thank god) but the appropriate word would be "esterilizar".

anyway. thanks

Lol! No worries!! Yeah that would be awkward as hell though. You take your pet in to get neutered and come to find out in the end only the meatballs are left and no sausage. XD

I will say this, your English is very good. Don’t get too frustrated though when you mess up. I know what it’s like...English is my native language and I know German from when I lived there. Sometimes I forget the word in English and use the German word instead. When I came back to the States, it was really frustrating. People didn’t understand what I was saying half the time. Now it’s not so bad but every I be in a while I will slip up. Hehe.

yeah... also very unnecessary and traumatic for the poor little guy, I mean Han doesn't like the vet anymore if we had done that to him I bet he wouldn't even like me.

Thanks, I know what you mean, sometimes there are words or expressions in the other language that doesn't exist in your mother language, or it just pops up first in your brain in your second language and you struggle to find the right translation for it or there are words that sound similar but mean something completely different, those are the worst!

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