i experienced the same thing as the uke (about his family). i guess it really is a normal reaction to pretend you have everything under control.... fearing everyone's judgement. an adulterous father, a grieving mother... it's shameful, isnt it? so we try to do everything we can to do great in other aspects.
yep this was the development i was talking about. im starting to like the sunbae. do your best to redeem yourself