I think I reacted pretty well considering that my first yaoi was not only a hardcore omegaverse but also a younger human slave x older beastman master type of thing. At first I was like: But then looking at that poor uke's bumhole I was just really concerned for his bodily wellness. Now, some odd years later and I'm completely hooked.
Lesbian here. Most women have trouble orgasming in the first place. Only stimulating by inserting a finger is a recipe for failure. The most common way a woman can masturbate is by stimulating the 'clit' (clitoris). This is usually described as a nub or hood. The location is higher up than your vagina. How you stimulate yourself with your clit ......
How did you react to your first really detailed yaoi scenes?