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god you-chan is those pieces of shits I never want to meet in real life. Dude is feeling fucking guilty about cheating and he knows he's in the wrong yet is gaslighting Miichi into thinking it's her who's at fault for putting pressure on him.
I hope Miichi grows a bone unlike most women in similar situations sadly and realizes it and drops his ass.
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Excuse me but need i remind you Michi also cheated...at this point in the manga i think it's fair for us to understand how each and every character feels and not play favourites with Michi bcoz her story was the 1st we read...yes You-chan is guilty for cheating but he did regret it and tried to totally forget about the other girl...it was his way of making it up to Michi... it's the same with Michi...she ended things with Niina but that ended up hurting both of them...
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Well that's exactly the reason why people here refuse to see You-chan's pov in the story ...i'm not hating on Michi or Niina but...both Michi's husband and Niina's wife have a reasonable story on why they are the way they are ...but ofc people refuse to see that just bcoz we have always seen their pov in the entire manga upto now...
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Nahhh...i do care...well Michi certainly would have known about his personality, his habits, his empathetic nature beforehand but she still got married... it's not even like she was forced ...she clearly loves/loved him...just the part of their lack of intimacy in a relationship worries her...n all the complications as she sees it is bcoz of their lack of intimacy
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Yeah I get what you are tryna say but nobody gives a f about You-chan and the fact that you are implying Michi also has some faults in their broken relationship baffles me like wut?
Also most of the people here don't wanna go deep into that fucker's character.Why?because we just don't want to
And nope even if he was the main character and the story was written from his pov,most of the people would have still talked shit about him including myself
Have you read Dear Sachan?That story was written from the guy's pov.He was also a cheater and this story is pretty similar to that one but did anyone give a fuck about him? Nope no one did because he didn't deserve it just like Youchan here
If you read the story from the cheater's side you are bound to feel more sad for the other party who's getting cheated not the one doing it unless you are psycho that is
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I'm in no way saying that miichi is innocent, heck emotional cheating is also a form of cheating. But from a perspective that miichi has tried many times to wait and slowly coax you-chan into opening up at least emotionally a bit more by planning trips, etc only to be met with him responding in the manner that he has in this chapter is a letdown
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If only people could properly communicate without needing to safeguard their words from hurting the other. I understand where Jun is coming from in being hesitant in talking and asking her husband, and sadly this is a problem many women go through when in the position of lesser power in a relationship.
Her husband needs to step up his game and realize the things she's providing and doing for him that he takes for granted. Love how the artist highlights the cooking, empty beer cans and garbage and toilet paper - showing that Jun is carryiing the housework but also the relationship on her shoulders.
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as someone who plays bdsm irl this manga is quite accurate in its depiction of the relationships and methods. props to the author for doing actual research.
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Also there are consequences to not following the safe word in the community, locally alt least. Organizers of events and like shop owners and stuff have names of folks who are not welcome from passed abuses. In my experience it's the safest sexual community because all the vetting.
I hope I made sense.(⊙…⊙ )
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I know this isn't related but which do u think I am a sadists or a masochist, I mean I would love to be chain up handcuffs and dominated and all different kinds things but I also think I would love to tie someone up and dont stop until there crying a complete mess and melting under me but this is for future reference I haven't really tried any of that yet after all am just 17I dont even know my sexuality soo I just say that am bi bc I cant choose soo pls tell me what u all think
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following what kdn1315 said, the bdsm community is pretty safe in general since people take alot of precaution with regards to meeting and 'playing' with new people, unlike I guess simple hookups. Usually limits are discussed and negotiated before a session so both parties know what they're getting into, as trust is important esp during more dangerous play. In that sense, if someone doesn't listen to your limits, they're trash and not worth your time, that would essentially be non-consensual.
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no need to put a simple label on your sexuality, we're all fluid and changing in our lives. It is totally normal and valid to have tendencies in both or any direction. You can be both dominant and submissive. If you'd like you can do a bdsm test to get an idea of what kind of things you might be into.
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from what you have described, you are probably a switch! i'm a switch too; basically i like being on both sides depending on who my partner is and what i'm in the mood for. these are some resources you could check out:
https://bdsmtest.org/select-mode
https://www.domsubliving.com/
there are also lots of books written on the subject. if you take time to do proper research so that you what you are interested in and what the community is like, you can better prepare yourself mentally, emotionally, and physically before your first experience
hmmm, this story really picked up and shined during its flashback. I feel the storytelling in present is not written as well, the flow from one scene to another is slightly choppy and leaves the reader disoriented.