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Not gonna lie I’ve never had to come out to any of my friends. They all assumed I was queer on some level. One even said I “Looked visibly gay” which I mean… fair I guess??? And I’m the type to absolutely CLING to my friends. Back in high school my theater teacher coined the term “Friends aren’t furniture” because I kept sitting on ......
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I know this is probably not the best place to ask and honestly Reddit might be a better area to ask this kind of advice but I have never used that app before so I’m using the forums here since I at least know how to use this.

Something to know about me before I delve into this is I am in my 20s. This will make sense to mention later on. So I’ve been playing on this Roblox game for a little bit and have been enjoying just chilling and making pretty outfits on it. One day someone came up to me and kind of sparked up a small conversation. Not one to shy from talk I responded. Somehow it lead to this person basically trauma dumping to me and also sharing the fact that they are only 12 years old. Keep in mind I am in my 20s and this child not only shared personal information to a stranger, but some random adult on a video game! I am now absolutely worried for this kid and kind of feel like I had a duty to try and make sure they learn about internet safety and to not be sharing personal information.

Fast forward to like a month and I’m still interacting with this kid because I guess me being nice and worried about this kid’s wellbeing made them want to hang out with me. At this point I’m noticing that this kid is becoming more and more attached to me as time goes on. They apparently told all their friends about me, have been basically glued by my side whenever we play this game, and even been calling me their best friend. Keep in mind, I am in my 20s and this child is 12, I am becoming rapidly concerned that they can get themself in a bad situation if they are trusting to any adult that is mildly nice to them. Recently though, this kid something rather insensitive to another person, the person got really heated and when they got defensive I tried to explain why what they did was wrong. This lead to the kid leaving and unfriending me on the game. Afterwards though, they started to message me rapidly apologizing and saying that they love me.

I’m now realising too late that this kid may have become so dependent on me and that the line of boundaries have been crossed. I have no idea what to do. While I would like to distance myself, I’m afraid of what they’ll do and how it may affect them. They’re a child and I don’t want to cause distress or harm to them, but I also understand that as an adult this interaction and relation that has been built is not healthy for them.

I’m just looking for any kind of unbiased advice or input currently, so any reply would be appreciated.

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1. If in a hypothetical you’re already thinking of reasons to disown your child, I pray you never have children. You don’t deserve the gift that is life and that child does not deserve to suffer with the fact they’ll be related to you 2. If you think just because you’re not gay is going to get you to heaven say hi to people like Hitler for......
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As a psychology major myself, go for mass media. I’m not sure what the field of psychology is like in South Asia, but where I am requires at least a masters degree to get anywhere with a job. Psychology as a whole is already a pretty competitive field to get into and from what I heard, Asian countries aren’t too keen on mental health fields, ho......
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Hello fellow queer I gotta say that’s kind of a shit thing that your friends are doing to you. Even if you’re casual about your sexuality, coming out should be on your terms and your terms alone. Your friends shouldn’t be just saying anything along the lines of “hey this is my friend and they’re a queer” because not only is that weird......
SunshineLight created a topic of Our Sunny Days

I honestly feel like girlie is gay or queer of some sort because the way she said that thing about being ordinary sounds like she’s parroting what she’s heard in the past. I wouldn’t be surprised in a rural town like the one they grew up in would have homophobic language that stuck with her. I just hope she doesn’t hurt our lovely couple in the process though and deals with her internalize homophobia

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Uhh here are some fun facts? If you drop both an elephant and an ant at the same height of 30 ft the ant would survive while the elephant would die due to the relative size and weight of both creatures Pineapple has an enzyme in it that breaks down the fibers in your mouth so when you eat it, it’s basically eating you back Instead of stinging ......

THEY KISSED THEY KISS SCREAMING AHHHHHHHHHH

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I SHIP HER WITH RYAN SCREW THE COMMANDER I LIKE RYAN

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Bro what the heck have you been saying to a bot where you think you’d be on the government’s radar
SunshineLight created a topic of Corrosive

Like each chapter gave a warning of everything that was gonna happen in the story, sexual assault, murder, rape- at this point my eyes glaze over this stuff and just say "fuck it" because I'm genuinely curious where this story is going. Is this going to be a classic trope of even though the top violently rapes the bottom, the bottom ends up falling in love with them basically forgiving and forgetting every horrible thing done to them, or is this going to actually have a storyline of growth, escape, and true freedom?

Also I don't really mind blondie, will he probably be a problem in the future? For sure, but dude did save our MC from being continually raped with that old dude, and he wants to try and save him from Creeper McCreeperson. He has the foresight that he won't be able to overpower the guy and knows he's not equipped with anything to save him besides them both leaving. Also I don't blame him for being scared I think if I was in the zombie apocalypse I wouldn't even die from a zombie I would die from fear or falling into some random death pit

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Honestly depends. I think if a person is a minor, then I absolutely believe that being private of their age is just conducting proper internet safety, even with people they are close with online. As someone who's an adult, I'm more lenient with giving around my age, however with minors they run the risk of providing their ages and getting targeted ......
SunshineLight created a topic of White Liar

I kinda get why Kei is pushing him away. He's been hurt so many times before and honestly, it sucks especially when you put your heart out there only to have it get stepped on. You're more guarded, more scared to start anything new. Even if he wanted to close his heart off, feelings just don't turn off like a switch for those who experience romantic attraction, sometimes you still love, even if that love has hurt in the past. He's trying to push him away and detach from this love in order to prevent getting hurt any more. I mean, it hurts now but why wait for the pain to be even worse to end it? I just hope he realises soon that he did what his past lovers did to him, hurt someone who put their heart out to him

Imma be so for real I was kinda shocked reading the comments stating that some of y'all didn't realise he had powers. Like no shade in the slightest but I sort of figured something was up with him when he not only can touch a succubus's wing but also break it off (to the point where said succubus had depleted so much power). That's just me though, like I just assumed he wasn't exactly normal in that sense

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I gotta look at some of y'all's results because some of these questions felt insane
SunshineLight created a topic of Between Us Now

I cannot believe that some of y'all are still hating on Soohwa after finding out the reason why Ki Hyuk was beating him up was because he was being HOMOPHOBIC. I need y'all to actually take off those rose tinted glasses because everything about his supposed "best friends" are red flags "Oh there's probably a good reason why Ki Hyuk is beating up Soohwa" or "Yaeyung must have a reason why to hate Soohwa" yeah it's because Ki Hyuk was being homophobic and Yaeyung is a possessive clingy bastard who wants Wooyoung to himself. If you truly blindly trust your friends like that I'm so worried that y'all actually bullied kids in the past because y'all thought "oh it's just joking around" or "They deserve it". I'm so glad none of you got bullied in your life but you need to seriously have just a smidge of empathy

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Are y'all serious? Dude gets beat up, bullied, and harassed and y'all are dog piling on him???? Just because he's supposedly "getting in the way of your ship"?? "Well he's being a pathetic cry baby" I WOULD BE TOO IF I WAS GETTING SMACKED AROUND BY SOMEONE TWICE MY SIZE. Watch the reason why he's getting bullied is because he's gay and that y'all sided with a homophobe

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As someone with parents who are mildly conservative they mostly ignore the fact I'm queer. Doesn't help the fact my coming out to them was pretty unconventional with my mother finding out after finding my fanfiction I've been reading and my father finding out in an Olive Garden and was more focused on the fact I came out as an atheist then I was ga......
SunshineLight created a topic of Lost in the Cloud

I mean great got the "kiss" part of the kiss and makeup saying but can y'all actually communicate during this breakfast so you can properly makeup instead of slapping it with a bandaid? Also therapy! That would be nice for y'all too (please I'm begging get the help that is needed)