What did I read? T.T
I tend to read romance webtoon to ease my heart, not to feel the toxicity of one relationship. I'm so sad because the ML has so many red flags, but what's worse is that if she took the time to teach him where he is wrong, I'm sure he would erase those red flags. But then again, she didn't treasure herself enough in the first place and also needs to heal by herself. She cannot take responsibility for him.
I guess I just feel like he is to dumb to understand his wrongdoings without someone telling him. Sigh.
I'm seriously asking myself why did I read through all the chapters when I'm now sighing too much. I don't feel like it's a waste of time but I don't feel great after reading this.
The fact that Luca was pissed off by ML's love at first sight towards FL from the beginning despite not having seen that on his 1st life is funny and at the time strange. Why is he thinking about the past Ruediger if even ML here is not acting as the same as before?? He definitely accepted quickly FL's changes though. That's contradictory.
But oh well, I find those two FL and ML pretty funny. I love how they are just so free spirited about their love and not minding others thoughts on this matter. Because truly, nor Grandfather, nor Luca has the right to interfere in this.
Of course that's the right way of processing what should have happened but oh well, it was truly funny this way as well. And because they have no rights to interfere, it's even funnier that they dare to do so when everyone are looking at them as some crazy folks who forgot was sanity was. The fact that even a royalty just doesn't care about etiquette anymore. I mean, the whole situation was funny. That's the conclusion.
And I really find the relationship between FL/ML cute and sweet. My blessings to those two lovely birds, who were made for each other and didn't waste their time on futile misunderstanding.
I think it's because FL is acting like an entirely different person whereas ML is acting the same as in his past life, yet the only difference is he loves the FL. I also think he's not really accepting the FL either. He's as accepting of her as he is of the ML. He didn't say he loves her back when she said she loves him, he simply replied with "I know" I don't think he trusts either of them, but I do think he trusts the FL more than the ML. Just my opinion tho
I honestly hope Luca can heal tho, poor boy didn't deserve to suffer as much as he did
I'll love it when they'll be no more brainwashed and see what a mess they did. I'm anticipating this. I know I shouldn't hate them but for sure, them being broken by what they did will be much more pleasing than her getting revenge. That's for sure !
Oh I can't wait to see it :')
I'm also guilty on hating-guys-that-have-been-brainwashed cuz even if there're victims, I thought that are weaklings not to over come such things when they are supposed to be strong. That or they don't love the FL enough to get through such things.
OR they just not meant to be. Simple as that.
Gaaah! I remember the song So did you by Millie Parfait.
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I've never read the novel and yet, I'm on Carcel's side. Actually, I've been thinking that Inès was quite toxic because she could only think of her past trauma and thus, impacting the other people (Carcel, servants,...) without even trying to understand on what basis she has an impact. She just appeared too egotistical.
Now, she is finally seeing her past as it is. She is starting to understand Carcel and not just herself. She is starting to be empathetic with others.
She is having a character development, just like Carcel and yet, webtoon readers seems to only want to see Ines's and deny Carcel's.
As a webtoon reader myself, I must say this is just being blind. Really.
Toxic!?! Have a bit of sympathy. The woman regresses and is still intact with all the trauma she received from Oscar and previous lives she had. No inch of self-worth was left of her but trauma. She was not able to process all that and yes she was manipulating Carcel but that was the only way she could think of saving herself from the hell she was living, and thought that Carcel would not love her because she never felt love from the previous life she recall. Her life right now is all about surviving and not loving.
And this, I totally understand. What I don't like to see, it's the comments looking at Carcel's past behaviour and not forgetting it while accepting Ines's behaviour as the only good one.
Between both, if judging behaviours, to me, Ines's behaviour is by far the most unhealthy one, so yes, toxic like I said. Because it's unhealthy for her but for all the other people as well. Ofc she needed time to heal and that's all it is about after all. Trauma doesn't heal so quickly. And yes, that shitty crown prince was trash.
But how can we agree with her behaviour and still seeing Carcel's behaviour as bad??? That's what I don't understand and I don't want to agree with. They both did wrong. And they're both worth the forgiveness as well. Not just Ines.
So basically you're criticizing Ines' behaviour, which is due to excessive and horrendous trauma, because you don't like seeing people criticize Carcel, therefore making it a competition on who's "more toxic". That just seems extremely counterproductive lmao. Why do you have to bring Ines down to support Carcel? That makes no sense. I love them both personally and understand both their perspectives.
Honestly, I do not really care about Carcel. If I cared, I would have tried to find him excuses bruh. I just don't like how so many people find excuses for the sin of Ines and accusing the other sinner to be the worst one.
Maybe I'm saying that because I've been one of the people suffering from someone who was in a traumatic behaviour? I would never find excuses for my sister's wrong behaviour while being in a trauma.
Truly it has nothing to do with Carcel or Ines. It's just me, not accepting to put a green card on someone just because he/she is sick. Wrong behaviour are wrong behaviour, whatever the situation was, whatever type of behaviour it was, if it's wrong, it's wrong. Which is why I'm saying, if you allow Ines to be forgiven, then yous should forgive Carcel as well.
I see, I understand better now what message you were trying to convey, though I'm not sure I fully agree. My standpoint is that there's no need to point blame at anyone in this situation. Ines is acting with the goal to survive and live in peace for once, while Carcel wants them to be happy together. While her trauma will never be an *excuse* to manipulate, self-sabotage and push people away, it is an *explanation* to her behaviour. And it is sadly understandable considering what she's been through.
I understand your frustration of people protecting Ines while critizicing Carcel - many just feel very strongly about cheating, even in fiction. Just how you relate Ines' behaviour to your sister's. I think there's no need to put them up against each other as it's very different situations they've been put in.
Thank you for further explaining though. :)
Maybe all of those people finding this story embarrassing does have brothers (or in the contrary sisters).
Idk I'm not embarrassed at all by their relation, I see that they love each other (a real love,
opposed to so many flat manhwa couples) and they tried to go over it because of the society. At least they tried. But love isn't something you can forget like that.
And I don't have brothers, sisters yes but I'm not gay so, doesn't matter to me. In that way, it doesn't appear disgusting to me.
Almost since they didn't even live together :") And are not blood related. I mean, only their overflowing love is the problem right now lol
It's really intriguing. Truthfully you can see there is something fishy with the OG heroine but at the same time, when FL debates with her, I truly feel like their relationship is real. While everything else is fake.
It's like OG FL isn't white nor all black, just plainfuly gray. Just like every other characters. None of them are purely angelic or full bad psychopath. There is always a bit of every extreme in each of them.
Feels pretty similar to how human's mind is shaped in reality too.