
I don't think comparing this history do BL is a very good argument. These days you can find smut heavy BL that isn't problematic, and people DO complain about it when it is. However, femdom stuff is different. All femdoms focused manhwas and mangas with smut that I've read in this website have shitty dommes.The only domme that I like is Sam from Sensual M, but that story has no smut, and sometime people (me) have needs.
Telling people to go read other stuff if you don't like this one, when every thing in this genre have the same problems, is not a good argument. People have rights to complain about stuff, especially if there is nothing better to read.

Other than those 3, Tsumi to kai (I don't even know how to start to talk about this this one), Let's Try SM With Me! (Not as bad as the others, but clearly maybe by a person that doesn't know that much about BDSM). I read Hubby Bunny but I don't really consider that femdom even though the tag is there (also, that girl is a shithead). I also read some of the bait stuff (like the idol x otaku one), but I usually drop those.
However, I had forgotten about mud/satanic sweet when I made my comment. I've read that one a long time ago but from what I remember that girl is a bit weird but as a domme she isn't bad. But for those looking from unproblematic stuff that one is Teacher X Student.
The reason why I specified content posted here is because I'm talking about the serialized stuff. I know there's hentai manga out there. But I think is safe to say here, mangago, manga/manhwa made for women are the most popular ones. So I didn't think things made with only cishet men in mind really fit this discussion.
And I know that non-con/dub-con is a problem in erotica fiction over all, specially when talking about BDSM. I don't know if my first comment sounded simplistic but that wasn't my intention.

The problem is that when we just talk about long running series made for a female audience then you only have those two (Sadistic Beauty and S Flowers) to choose from so saying how all of them are the same might be true but it's also redundant. And then comparing it to all the yaoi published isn't a good comparison because there are more yaoi updates per day on this site than there are long-running femdon stories as a whole.
But I guess you already realized that.

I get why people dislike rape in these types of stories and I think this one right could've been easily rape-free without worsening the "plot".
However, we aren't in 2008 anymore. We aren't obligated to read only this kind of story. There is a plenty of healthily porny BLs out there, so... you know... go read those if this one bothers you.
Who suffered more?
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