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So I’ve recently been diagnosed with BPD and what this boy is doing…he’s splitting. Aka disconnecting because he saw the older guys absence as rejection and as a coping mechanism he’s pushing him away. Behaving like it’s already a done deal. Bpd happens when someone’s had a traumatic childhood and as a result we’re often very black or white in our thinking. When we trust someone it’s so very easily broken and for some ppl being busy is okay but for ppl with bpd that can be the end of the whole relationship….itd very hard to describe.