Brieeze's Questions (3)

idk what this is but i also want to read it, anyone????

hahaha me too

is it this one? http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/suki_dakara_itte_hoshikunai/mf/v01/c002/1/

Oh my God! I've been looking for this for months. I loooooooove you! Thank yooooooooooooooooooooo so much, you beautiful human! <3 <3 <3

You're welcome (●^◡^●)ﾉ

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As a virgin i wouldn't know if it is normal, but I know for sure it's based on porn ╮(￣▽￣)╭

But its noooooooot? Well maybe asian porn? 0.o i doooooont know. I mean it's not at all normal in my culture or american porn (north/south America since I'm brazilian but I love in the US)

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like from experience right before you o it can be really intense so you might call out no or stop right then but otherwise? no. thats just a strange myth. ive never fucked anybody that cried no the whole time. （￣へ￣）

well when you say "stopppp >///< yamete koudasai senpaiiiiii~<33" it symbolises purity and virginity due to its submissive nature. A dominant partner would be turned on by that- especially in asian countries where youth, purity and cuteness are deem sexually irresistible.

In the other hand, if one was to say "mOrE daDDY HNNNGGGG" that'd make you look like a slut or- rather- insinuates that you're slut in asian countries as begging for more makes you look like sex-deprived animal that's no longer pure.

Like, I read alotta hentai and I can see a trend. When I look through "prostitute" tags they rarely say "stoppppp" and when I look through "virgin" tags they rarely say "fuck me harderrrrrr"

I can not stress this enough, it's yaoi. If you don't have consent in real life, it's rape. If your partner tells you stop, stop. But because it's yaoi looking at it from a realistic viewpoint will ruin most yaoi. It's straight forward in real life, in yaoi logic and law is thrown out the window.

Oi! Tudo bom? :)

So do real asian couples do that to be sexy?

i don't know. They just do that in asian porn- particularly japanese where the bottom always seems to cry and bitch ╮(￣▽￣)╭

Por mim tá bom, eu não escrevo muito bem porque tou no Estados Unidos faz muitos anos mais podemos conversar. Onde você mora? Eu moro em Texas

This comment section is oddly pure.

sex makes you say all kinda things baby, and when the person who's sucking you off hits your better spot, of course it would make you say "no,stop,don't" things like that

That's the thing though it's in yaoi, yuri and het between consenting, horny couples who want to do the deed. (Taste the rainbow lol i dont discriminate) I'm not talking about the 99 million yaoi rape stories. just trying to understand where this "let me pretend I hate the pleasure my partner gives me" thing but the way @~homo coitus~ explained it made a lot of sense and I suspected that was the explanation and the "normal" view but now I wana know is it like a porn stereotype or do actual japanese and korean people generally subscribe to this type of thinking. Not trying to be rude, all cultures have stereotypes we more or less recognize as normal. It's just I've seen this "no,dont" thing so much its finally just like ARGH SOMEONE EXPLAIN lol

A lot of Eastern cultures do think it's (at least a little) shameful to be lustful and 'perverted' enough to enjoy sex, especially when most of their cultural heritage placed value on meek, quiet women and composed, in-control men. Because of this there is a lot of sexual draw to those that are innocent/pure being corrupted/defiled, and crying out 'no' and 'stop' is supposed to display this purity of character. They are also more conservative in showing their affections and emotions so I think it's also displaying their distaste for loosing control of themselves when they're actually enjoying it. Thankfully however, I think this is a dying belief and what we see in manga today is a kind of remnant of decades past. It's just kind of became the norm/expected in manga and anime culture.
Dubcon/Noncon role-playing during sex is a very real thing that can be enjoyable to some. I've personally explored it with a few of my partners and it was gratifying for both of us. Of course, it was fully consensual, we had safe words, and in some cases we even discussed what kind of scene we wished to act out so we weren't caught off guard. With manga being an art form, it's going to be normal for those fantasies (and other such taboo topics) to be placed on display in a safe and controlled way ready to be devoured by the shamed and in-the-closet masses.

tudo no japão é incubado, ou seja, as pessoas sempre querem fazer algo e nao podem
Mts das vezes acabam reprimindo seus desejos. O que eu quero dizer é, quanto mais "errado" aos olhos da sociedade, mais prazeroso vai ser pra eles. Ent vc falando "ain, parann, ai não" vai fazer eles querer maiss

Depends on the person.

Lmfao I guess if you look at it cross eyed it could be hot. Idk Japan and Korea are two completely and totally different cultures compared to Brasil. We're not as hung up on "purity" and we're more on the fiery, passionate scream yes side of the spectrum. Obviously there are exceptions but a lot of aspects of Asian cultures seem to be polar opposite to the perspectives Latin Americans have so I think it's interesting *shrug

E faz sentido tbm essa ideia de pureza que parece ser muito importante nas culturas asiáticas. E na minha opinião "não, para" não é tão sexy kkkk ╮(￣.￣)╭

From what I understand from asian cultures (specially Japanese, as I lived there for some time) it's all about saving face. In this sense, it can be as extreme as taking it even into their private lives with their partners.

What I mean is, for them accepting the fact that they're feeling pleasure from their partners is both embarrassing and can sometimes even be shameful. That can both turn them on even more (like a kink) and make them feel like it's wrong. And because it's wrong, it can be a turn on again. And it goes both sides, whoever is toping and whoever is bottoming but it's specially true for who's bottoming since they're on the receiving side.
Japanese people say sorry instead of thank you when someone helps them with anything, it's a norm and it's part of their culture. That also adds up to the feeling 'shame' for being on the receiving side. And I could really go on and on,
it's extremely complicated as you can see and I may be completely off point as well, but it's all based on deduction and social studies I've done myself (I've taken courses as well). But I believe that might be why it's recurrent.

I'd like someone else to add any opinion they might have, I'm now quite curious as to what other ppl think as well ლ(´ڡ`ლ)

Makes sense, I mean Asian cultures are renown for being conservative. I guess I was just wanting to know if there was any truth behind this stereotype because I see it so stupidly often like so often I'd be hard pressed to find you a sexy story that didnt have this "no, don't" thing. I think I can think of only one and I cant remember what it was even called... lol