The seme loves asses and his girlfriends are always breaking up with him because of that. He goes to his best friend and asks to eat his ass because hes all pent up and the best friend let's him bc hes secretly in love with him. Long story short they end up dating. It's short, cute porn and I cannot for the life of me find it anywhere.....I've been trying for months now. I'd really appreciate it if anyone knows the title. Thank you
So I read a lot of manga and manhwa and I've noticed over and over and over again regardless of yaoi, yuri or straight when a pair is doing the deed, the receiving one is generally moaning/yelling/screaming "no, don't, stop, not there, nooooo...." (especially when they're about to get off) even though its crystal clear it's completely consensual; like I'm talking no non-con grey area at all. And, craziness, if the top actually stops the bottom is like "dont stop"...what?!...I think consent is sexy af so I'm over here like if I'm doing the deed and my partner is yelling that nonsense, ima stop, you know. I just don't understand. Is this normal sexy behavior? Where did this behavior come from? Is it some weird social construct prevalent in Japan and Korea? Is it normal to pretend you hate the pleasure your wife, husband, soul mate gives you? WHY DOES 99.9% OF ALL MY HAPPY 2D COUPLES HAVE SEX LIFE THIS?! Someone please explain this to me....
well when you say "stopppp >///< yamete koudasai senpaiiiiii~<33" it symbolises purity and virginity due to its submissive nature. A dominant partner would be turned on by that- especially in asian countries where youth, purity and cuteness are deem sexually irresistible.
In the other hand, if one was to say "mOrE daDDY HNNNGGGG" that'd make you look like a slut or- rather- insinuates that you're slut in asian countries as begging for more makes you look like sex-deprived animal that's no longer pure.
Like, I read alotta hentai and I can see a trend. When I look through "prostitute" tags they rarely say "stoppppp" and when I look through "virgin" tags they rarely say "fuck me harderrrrrr"
That's the thing though it's in yaoi, yuri and het between consenting, horny couples who want to do the deed. (Taste the rainbow lol i dont discriminate) I'm not talking about the 99 million yaoi rape stories. just trying to understand where this "let me pretend I hate the pleasure my partner gives me" thing but the way @~homo coitus~ explained it made a lot of sense and I suspected that was the explanation and the "normal" view but now I wana know is it like a porn stereotype or do actual japanese and korean people generally subscribe to this type of thinking. Not trying to be rude, all cultures have stereotypes we more or less recognize as normal. It's just I've seen this "no,dont" thing so much its finally just like ARGH SOMEONE EXPLAIN lol
A lot of Eastern cultures do think it's (at least a little) shameful to be lustful and 'perverted' enough to enjoy sex, especially when most of their cultural heritage placed value on meek, quiet women and composed, in-control men. Because of this there is a lot of sexual draw to those that are innocent/pure being corrupted/defiled, and crying out 'no' and 'stop' is supposed to display this purity of character. They are also more conservative in showing their affections and emotions so I think it's also displaying their distaste for loosing control of themselves when they're actually enjoying it. Thankfully however, I think this is a dying belief and what we see in manga today is a kind of remnant of decades past. It's just kind of became the norm/expected in manga and anime culture.
Dubcon/Noncon role-playing during sex is a very real thing that can be enjoyable to some. I've personally explored it with a few of my partners and it was gratifying for both of us. Of course, it was fully consensual, we had safe words, and in some cases we even discussed what kind of scene we wished to act out so we weren't caught off guard. With manga being an art form, it's going to be normal for those fantasies (and other such taboo topics) to be placed on display in a safe and controlled way ready to be devoured by the shamed and in-the-closet masses.
Lmfao I guess if you look at it cross eyed it could be hot. Idk Japan and Korea are two completely and totally different cultures compared to Brasil. We're not as hung up on "purity" and we're more on the fiery, passionate scream yes side of the spectrum. Obviously there are exceptions but a lot of aspects of Asian cultures seem to be polar opposite to the perspectives Latin Americans have so I think it's interesting *shrug
From what I understand from asian cultures (specially Japanese, as I lived there for some time) it's all about saving face. In this sense, it can be as extreme as taking it even into their private lives with their partners.
What I mean is, for them accepting the fact that they're feeling pleasure from their partners is both embarrassing and can sometimes even be shameful. That can both turn them on even more (like a kink) and make them feel like it's wrong. And because it's wrong, it can be a turn on again. And it goes both sides, whoever is toping and whoever is bottoming but it's specially true for who's bottoming since they're on the receiving side.
Japanese people say sorry instead of thank you when someone helps them with anything, it's a norm and it's part of their culture. That also adds up to the feeling 'shame' for being on the receiving side. And I could really go on and on,
it's extremely complicated as you can see and I may be completely off point as well, but it's all based on deduction and social studies I've done myself (I've taken courses as well). But I believe that might be why it's recurrent.
I'd like someone else to add any opinion they might have, I'm now quite curious as to what other ppl think as well ლ(´ڡ`ლ)
Makes sense, I mean Asian cultures are renown for being conservative. I guess I was just wanting to know if there was any truth behind this stereotype because I see it so stupidly often like so often I'd be hard pressed to find you a sexy story that didnt have this "no, don't" thing. I think I can think of only one and I cant remember what it was even called... lol
Communication maybe?...What's up w overwhelming trope where aDuLtS cant say I like you?! So many just go on and on and on and no one ever says anything, like why?