The consensual parts were so hot but then ml ruined it for me, I thought I found something for a sadist like me instead it's another boring and disgusting abusive relationship. Someone needs to introduce actual bdsm to authors because their minds would be blown! Instead it's always rape...
I'd totally get where your coming from if the story was supposed to be them in a bdsm relationship. The story so far goes the bottom happens to be a masochist and the seme is an obsessive controlling creep that has his hand in everything the main character does. If the seme was supposed to be a normal person yes very much a sicko, but the author took the time to write him weird on purpose.
I get it, it's why I'm not gonna rate it. I'm just frustrated that every time I think I finally find a good bdsm relationship it's just another victim/abuser manwha, I'm just tired of how many of these there are. I guess they're popular? I don't get why they honestly gross me out so I'm not going to keep reading hoping it gets good.
So true. The seme was really frustrating me tbh, but I'm sure you'll find a good one eventually. The only one that I've seen that actually tries to stay in the sado-maso world is Ang Ang and that's barely with the seme being an overly aggressive gang descendant...(⌒▽⌒) Good luck!
I know right? The victim x abuser trope is terrifyingly common
Yeah and it's so samey and uninspired, they never do anything interesting with it. I don't like it to begin with but I could understand it if it was well executed.
u can try reading My Partner's Tastes and Fetishes, its about bdsm relationship and its pretty healthy i think ??? :') didnt read the whole thing tho
Thank you for the rec (づ￣ ³￣)づ
Have y'all read Secretary Jin's Confinement Diary, it's BDSM and consensual!
No, thanks for the rec!
I really like their dynamic and since seo an wanted to top I wish it'd get explored further
Why was the drugging necessary tho? What if he just asked to top and they decided to try like normal non abusive people would ? I don't get it....
the points to show how they both obsess over each other in an unhealthy way
There's unhealthy and there's abusive, I'm not a black and white morality kinda person but drugging someone to rape them is unforgivable
But I understand your point
well thats the storyline
Oh my god at this point it's a competition to who's the densest human on earth, I wish they would just talk!!!! Do people this stupid actually exist??? #－.－)
Jiwon said denial so strong I think I might actually not hate men, she acted like she might catch the plague from all her exes.... Baby you're just gay and that's okay
At first I thought he was gonna be a golden hearted asshole and probably end up with the mc but I was wrong, he's just a jerk what the hell. He gets off by violating ohns boundaries but that's forgivable what's not is the way he treats the guy he approached for looking like his ex, and now he fell for ohn and probably won't even even tell his brother or feel remorseful. I don't particularly like ohn or seowoo but I hope the author follows up on the hints that ohn likes og seowoo more than fake seowoo (he gets butterflies when he thinks about seowoo and dislikes when it's jaewoo acting as his brother) and doesn't have jaewoo as endgame
The first side chapter was okay (I'm starving for good exploration of kink in mangas) , he took out the vibrator because it was too much but then he completely for goes consent in the next chapter? That's not how it works. You can't revoke the right of consent, ever. You can pretend for rape play but that's why we have systems in place in the bdsm community. So disappointed because the story was so wholesome up until now
If you leave me waiting up I'm not gonnalet that slide, it's one of the most disrespectful things you can do I would've told him to shut the fuck up from the very beginning