english isn’t my native language so sorry for the mistakes.
I just can’t. This cap brokes my heart but see people saying “Chanwoo is dramatic” or “MD is good because he stopped” and similar shit makes me cry even more. I used to be in an abusive relationships. I used to had a girlfriend who said “if i didn’t have sex with you, i’ll kill my self”. Last year, i dated another girl, and every time when i said “no”, she punished me. And then, when she saw me crying like a fucking bitch she comes with “oh my god i’m sorry for makes you cry i love you”. When I broke up with her, i said to myself i will never EVER date again, because ALL my relationships were fucked up. That’s why i can understand Chanwoo. He was broken, because his ex boyfriend were shit. And the only thing he asked to MD was respect. No lies. No games. “I don’t want date with you”. And MD couldn’t respect this. MD saw him sad because WELL, SEE YOU, ANOTHER BOYFRIEND MESSED UP WITH CHANWOO. AGAIN. And what he did? He made them have SEX. “Chanwoo could say the safe any time”. Yeah, and that’s mean lose the only person that he could trust because, as i said, HIS OWN BOYFRIEND NEVER CARED ABOUT HIM. But HEY, MD is sooooo good. He has listen the safe word, what a good guy. When you say “i understand MD, he likes Chanwoo and just wanted some revange” you’re on the side of the abusive guy. When you think that is ok FUCK someone hearts because that person don’t want a relationship with you, you are on the side of the abusive person. I’m super sad with this chapter. Chanwoo is a victim of two manipulative guys. Stop
fucking blaming the victim.
I'm so sorry you went through that and I completely agree with you. MD is childish and abusive and I kind of hate how this is going to Be overlooked. I'm so sad for Chanwoo. Everyone he dates turns out abusive huh
I really hope this isn't glossed over, and i hope that ur pain weakens with time.
You’re right and you should say it
Honestly, I hope Chanwoo breaks up with MD. He went so fucking far. Chanwoo was in love with that shitty guy, and then, had his heart bronke. Seconds later, had sex with that trash and MD was like “oh if you don’t say stop eVERTHING IS GOOD I GUESS”. Fuck both of them. Hope Chanwoo find a new master who cares abt him and don’t fuck with his heart when listen a “no”.
But it’s not really up to MD to set Chanwoo’s limits, right? That’s up to Chanwoo himself. ‘Stop’ and ‘no’ doesn’t necessarily mean the same thing when you enter a dom/sub relationship. Lots of subs like saying ‘no’ to be a little cheeky and get punishments.
It’s the safe word that’s important, and it’s when the safe word was used, that MD stopped the play.
Ok, but this is abt the safe word (sorry for not make this clear). But my point is, he DIDNT respect his limits. Seconds ago, Chanwoo was like “this is my boyfriend, and I like him so much”, and THEN, had his heart broke by the same guy cause he only wants to see MD. MD, being the shit as possible saw a reason to hurts Chanwoo cause he was rejected. Now, imagine this scenario: you are dating a person who never really likes you, and then, the only person you trust (MD in case) asks you to that shit with the guy who had LITERALLY broken you seconds ago just for revange. He listen the safe word, but is not abt just the word. It’s abt all the context.
This chapter was *chef’s kiss*