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Wtf are you talking about sometimes people cheat and fall in love with the other person, it just happens. Even I know this and I don’t support it neither. You can’t choose who you fall in love with it happens naturally , and if you are going to hate on this story hate on their personalities cuz they literally suck ╮(￣▽￣)╭

You're right; it happens. But the mature and responsible way to handle this isn't to cheat, but to first have a conversation and break up with your current partner. This makes this situation a lot more healthy and simply better for everyone involved compared to just cheating. And although you may not be able to help being attracted to someone, you do have a responsibility to recognize that attraction early enough to take steps to avoid those feelings getting stronger. If you are in a relationship and realize that you are starting to fall for someone else, you either break up with your current partner, or you do whatever you can to prevent the feelings becoming stronger and potentially irresistible. (Like not going to places where you might see them, or distancing yourself from them.) In the end, "we just can't control who we fall in love with" isn't a good excuse.
I think that's the main reason why people are angry about the cheating.

Babyyyy you choose who you fall in love and whoever you fall in love but that not ma point my point is When there a good man wit good heart tryna give you love people chose just turn away from them because their stuck to the person they love even if they treat them like trash and that a problem wit women’s they think just becausee we love them we think that we gon be forever and she has that problem she is too attached she has to leave himmm tf and find someone who truly loves her she deserves better PeriodT

Babyyyy you choose who you fall in love and whoever you fall in love but that not ma point my point is When there a good man wit good heart tryna give you love people chose just turn away from them because their stuck to the person they love even if they treat them like trash and that a problem wit women’s they think just becausee we love them we think that we gon be forever and she has that problem she is too attached she has to leave himmm tf and find someone who truly loves her she deserves better PeriodT@Yaoiii

Honestly you are right but we are human we will always try to find a loop hole people may say everything you are saying but look at it this way if you were in a relationship with someone you love or use to love then started liking some else Do you really think you can break it off with them knowing they are in love with you. Could you break them in pieces and watch them fall apart, so what would you do ? and “we can’t control who we fall in love with “ is just the truth it’s not a excuse unless you use it as one . Even tho it’s healthier people will not do that, the long the relationship the least likely they are to leave. But I like the way you think (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

Youuu Speak fact sis But she ruening her life over someone who doesn’t truly want her and wants to cherish her find some better someone who can truly cherish what your worth imma be straight up I’m not someone who relies on men or ever want to rely on men You fall in love wit the wrong person and they end hurting you or ever cheats on you tbh I would close my heart and not be in releshionship and not worry but anybody else other then my self but then if I find another person who truly want me for who i am or truly cherish me I would take him and that on fact I guess hard to move on but she gotta live her life a little start realizing that she need to find someone who would truly cherish her and her worth

Period sis (๑•ㅂ•)و✧ Fuck a man, wtf do you need a men for honestly do you, find a Good man. seriously the girl in this manga really sucks she just something else

Thanks for the compliment! I can't personally speak to the hypothetical you put forward since I haven't been in that situation, but I hope that if I was, I would do the right thing. (The right thing imo, that is, since everyone has different values and moral principles.) If I was with someone I loved but felt an attraction to someone else, I would simply distant myself from the person I felt a spark with. Either way, I feel as though if you honestly respected and loved someone, you would never cheat on them.
If I was with someone I used to love and who still loves me, I would probably break up with them. Sure they might "break into pieces" as you put it, but I feel like that would still be the best long term solution. Not only would I not be able to find happiness with someone who I don't love, but my partner would also not find happiness with someone who doesn't love him. And that's what he deserves as well; someone who loves him back.

That's what I hope I would do if I was ever in this situation. But of course, we never know what we'll actually do until it happens. And you are right in that humans are imperfect and will make mistakes. Thanks; I'll be more openminded when I read abt future situations like this.

The only people that choose cheating are scumbags. People cant help who they fall for , but majority of people control themself. Idk whether its the cheating or cause of the personality i hate more. The dudes the worst to keep wanting to cheat but not divorce. He legit uses the girl for whenever he wanna have sex and she allows herself to be used. Imagine if the dude had lids, he rlly would fk up

I mean I never been in that situation neither but my parents were so I saw and heard most of it I got to know both sides so who knows but nice I really do like the way you think and you are welcome . And until you get into a situation like that ( hopefully not ) you never know what will happen (=・ω・=)

I get it they are scumbags but my dad it and I was angry and upset with that he did it to my mom but when I got to know his side and I forgave him.