Honestly, I think it's no different from people getting off to mangas with straight couples. It's still an unrealistic representation of relationships. It's no different or worse just because the relationship is homosexual. And some yoai/bl mangas are very good at representing realistic relationships and feelings and I'm sure there are straight cou......
Personally, I never fetishize a gay person that I meet in real life. I find it rude and irrational.I guess you could say it's messed up on how straight women make the yaoi relationships. But it is just fiction. It is just like writing a book. If people who read yaoi actually go out into the real world and say/do gross things to gay men...I sincerel......
Yaoi is not representing gay relationships. They just said it, it's fucking targeted to the women market. So the stories are highly unbelievable. It's just like romance mangas. It's for entertainment don't take it seriously. Cause if you do then you shit man
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