tbf i dont blame jiho for not knowing how inwoo felt about his mom bc inwoos always talked about missing her and hasnt talked about how her leaving him gave him serious abandonment issues. like inwoo said, jihos never hated his family--he was mad at them and hated that they didnt accept him, but that all came from wanting them to still love him. some people just straight up cant fathom genuinely hating your family. but i DO blame him for forcing inwoo to meet his mom. even if he didnt know how complex inwoo's emotions were, it still isnt something you just dump on someone. hopefully this leads to inwoo talking about his feelings tho cuz my boys been repressing A LOT