
Wasn't this basically rape....? Via manipulation?.... or am i just imagining..?

tbh it's kinda confusing. Like the seme is very concerned and worried the first time around cuz he's worried the uke didn't actually want that, which is a good step to take. He even goes and asks whether what he's doing is ok and to continue, but slowly that concept of consent is thrown out the window and just goes "if you tell me to stop i will" "really?" "lol nope"
like consent is sexy, guys. it's ALMOST as if the author didn't actually know how to write consent in a way that wouldn't kill the mood- though imo it can only advance the mood- and just treated it as a little joke in the long run.

Ikr. I know the other guy also kept thinking about it but that doesn't mean hes 100% giving concent?? And they couldve just done it without that rapey dialogue for no apparent reason thinking it was hot tf. It was going so well before this. The blonde one was being pushy, sure, but not over the top and was obviously respectful but this just kinda killed it for me.... I'm tired of this stuff being normalized and turned into jokes.

I’m saying that It’s like siblings fighting you don’t actually want them to get hurt, And like I said I think he’s not good at expressing his emotions and it was a joke he wasn’t seriously saying that he wasn’t going to stop and like I said this is fiction, this is literally just porn this isn’t going to cause harm in the real world

No I'm still definitely planning to enjoy the series. It's much better than most others in this regard anyway. I just think we should acknowledge it and not normalize it. Younger people are also reading and it might actually affect their views on it and think this is how romance and sex should be done.

It’s not their responsibility tho, porn isn’t for educational purposes and It never was, people shouldn’t be learning stuff from porn. Isn’t that what school is for, and Like I said I think it was a joke because of the overall tone of the conversation, And I think the problem is we should be teaching young people not to learn stuff from porn because obviously it’s not for educational purposes It’s literally for entertainment

I'm not saying it's wrong of the author to put this into their story. It's their story they can do whatever the hell they want with it. I'm just saying we shouldn't just gloss over it and call it romantic and normal, is all. The story itself overall is nice and pretty adorable, just moments like that shouldn't be taken as something cute imo.
Either ways Im not trying to bring down the story at all, just discussing this openly and sharing opinions shouldn't be a bad thing. If I didn't like it overall,I wouldn't read it at all.
If you disagree just unlike or scroll past.

Okay but I can't really fully blame Yohan. His situation was just utter shit. I would want to take revenge on the world too. And as they said the desire gets amplified once you become a vampire. His hatred for the world was probably much bigger than his love for Hayan or her parents. It paled in comparison to his desperation and pain that everyone and everything else had put him through.
They were too late to save him when they did. Even if he was still alive his spirit was already broken.
Even if Yohan loved them and considered them family they were still an obstacle to his larger need for revenge.
Hayan's parents were just collateral damage for him and a source of power. He lost control and became a wholly different person when he became a vampire. I feel like when he said he was happy because he finally had family, he wasn't lying. He genuinely liked being with them but his desires now as a vampire just took better of him and he succumbed to it. He didn't have any resistance in him left due to trauma and hatred. One person or one kind deed can't just erase all the wrong he has suffered.
This was so long I'm sorry but I just feel really sorry for Yohan. A child, or anyone really, doesn't deserve to go through all that and imagining how real that is, how every day millions of children go through exactly that if not worse, and are powerless to seek justice pains me.

damn that was deep i didn’t really think that about yohan , i still hate the guy but you’re right he was so overwhelmed with his emotions and he didn’t know what to do anymore bc he never got proper guidance and just lost control of himself , it’s just so sad how he ended up taking out most of his anger and hatred on hayans parents :(
I hate myself for putting "unhealthy" and "cute" tags next to each other lmao
But it iz what it iz