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mangago community is damm toxic

I honestly haven’t seen any toxicity everyone is always nice. Pls tell me where you guys are seeing this

(this gonna be a bit long)

The constant justification for rape in popular publications (such as bj alex, jinx, that one yuri, painter, sadistic beauty, etc.), acting like people don’t have a right to complain that there is an ABUNDANCE of rape (especially the popular and beautifully illustrated manwhas/mangas) on the manwhas. they’re expected to just go search the niddy griddy of mangago for a consensual comic with decent art or a decent plot.

It’s been this way for years and i personally feel like people just like to see the uke just fucking suffer… like it’s sick because let’s face it there are ppl on here under 18 years old and will get the assumption that it’s fine. although people may use the “fiction” approach a lot of times these manwhas literally romanticize it so bad that people become attached to the character. take sangwoo for example (even though technically it’s not a BL story, although advertised as one). I just wish people can just read their rapey shit without tryna to make seem like it’s fine. It’s not; it’s a kink and you don’t need to be spreading it like a white night.

same!! idk abt you but everyones always really nice and helpful ￣□￣||

realest shit

love that for yall, where do yall be at?

That's why mangago disabled comments

icl yeah i js read my shit and occasionally ask for recs

but wym toxic can u give me some examples?? idk cus i dont interact w ppl on this siye anyways

Oh, I honestly think that I probably am just able to somehow avoid all that stuff. I also try my hardest not to get involved in the jinx stuff because I for one hate drama and personally don’t like jinx at all and think that the story is gross. And most of the people I talk to on here are all so friendly, and I don’t try to start stuff so I think that’s why I haven’t seen any one the toxic stuff on mangago? I also try to only read stuff without rape unless it’s a phycological story or something like that where there is no romantic plot, and I don’t try to justify the story. Rape is rape. I also completely agree with everything you just said.

Yeah. Mostly in the questions I only see people asking for recs, and I give them some.

Also just try to avoid all the toxicity on here and you’ll be fine

I think there was a comment here saying something like “can’t believe someone is still a morality police acting pure” something like that basically saying they hate ppl who still shit on shitty bls that have r@pe (jinx etc i guess that’s an example) basically implying we’re acting all pure and got fake morals or something

No one on here is pure but we don’t all think rape is cool or like it. Like bro, wtf. Whoever said that needs god or something bc they’re messed up

WHAT babes….. thats actually crazy. them man need help grouping ppl actually alr in the head w themselves igu now this place toxic asl

yep we are in hell now

yeah girl read my comment above (it’s a bit long) but i deep dive into why i said this place is hell and a shit stain that can’t be erased

exactly! if it’s literally no romantic relationship then ok sure but people real go on here romanticizing it and it’s so sick bc it’s poisoning people’s minds. but kudos to you for not being in drama and being on the kinder side of mangago. stay there!!!

bingo

omg im so sorry i completely missed that but i completely get u now ppl here suck

Omg this, I genuinely will never understand how anyone can just throw, “it’s fiction,” at the most extreme and disgusting rape scenes. The only reason why I’m so dead set on dragging those people down is because I was one of them before the comment section… only because for some reason the VERY popular BLs contain SA and is hyped up. Now that I’m older I realize how fked up people AND the writers/artist are.

sorry but bj alex is not rape.

at the beginning it was extremely forced and nonconsensual and very manipulative, I fell out so I barely know what outcome it came from that manhwa so. But you're entitled to your opinion

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OMG BLOOD BANK WAS THE SHIT- I finished it already
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bj alex isn't rape but he does get treated like shit

First- I love your username and second I might've used that word a little to freely but it was very forced and seemed non-consent I probably over read it but there is some emotional abuse

thanks and ur correct

trust me you will fall in love

Actually, yaoi are mostly written for women, and when you're a women, your dream is that a guy will so deeply fall in love with that he will get mad, so mad about you that he'll loose his mind to the point he will commit a crime (for example he won't be able to hold on and will rape you). BUT : that's a only a fantasy, there isn't any women on earth who would like to be raped. I think that's why there are so much «romanticized» rapes in yaois. And more, the raped one is a guy, so you can't totally, when you're a women, feel what the MC feels.
You have to take it as it is : a fantasy, a shameful dream you can live through yaois, cause you can't live it in real life : a real mad guy would lead you to hospital...

goes to show how kinda disgusting it is tho and many of the yaoi fanbase always defends it.

a insult mixed in with helping? There's no need to be rude honestly, you like what you like and sure there may be that but the majority of the fanbase of yaoi has the romanticizing rape culture. Big titles have forced love and rape, and just like you are entitled to what you say we can say how we feel. It's not about "putting effort" it's about how others feel when a book SEEMS good but it has abuse and rape factors. Thanks for the list ig.

I think that dildo DP scene was rape. I was never a fan of the series but I still continued reading it because I wanted to see one sex scene in which both of them are having fun.
And then the dildo scene happened and it was disturbing enough for me to drop it (and this is coming from someone with a rape kink).
The uke cried, screamed and begged the seme to stop. The seme only did it because he was angry at the uke and the uke was whimpering and crying even after it was over. If that's not rape then I don't know what it was.

you can't judge a book by it's cover so people seriously blindly go in reading until they see rape shit so like ????

OH MY FUCKING GOD YES! FINALLY THANK YOU SOMEONE WHO REMEMBERS THAT DAMN SCENE THAT SHIT WAS RAPE DAWG OH MY GOD

no but that was rape, and I dropped it then I remember, I knew there was a rape factor I just didn't want to go back and find it because I'd get mad all over again smh. I'm just glad someone actually sees that, seriously even someone with a rape kink knows that was rape dawg smh

ill never understand how bl alex got so popular. it follows the same cliche as like, 90% of bl - spineless uke, asshole seme, rape, uke falling for seme even tho he gets treated like shit, etc. one thing i dislike about rape in bl is how shallow it's done? like, it's never mentioned again and completely forgotten. and as long as the rapist has a tragic backstory/a mental illness/is conventionally attractive, the fujos are quick to defend them.

bj alex

Your second edit..
it made me laugh..!!!!

Yeah, that was definitely rape and it was kind of concerning how many people claimed it wasn't rape because the uke agreed to a have a purely sexual relationship with the seme and therefor everything automatically becomes consensual.

Oh I didn't know that! (I mean the baseless defending, I didn't mean the rape part) didn't make me stop reading though because I like the story, but rape really makes me uncomfortable.. Same with GoT with the rape scenes.. Hated those parts but still watched till the end.

Just to be clear though.. When one party says 'no' and the other party keeps going it's rape. No matter if the party that keeps going is male or female (lets not forget women can also rape man)

well there's a reason why "fujoshi" is being called like that *shrugs.
or is it that you are a new fan that hasn't still developed some form of jaded-ness in yaoi?

NIGGA I FORGOT ABOUT THE DILDO SCENE HY THAT WAS RAPE MY GUY

But wether you like rape scenes or not (not judging) a rape scene is a rape scene. Sometimes I also like rape scenes, (although most off the times not) but the ones I like aren't 'not rape scenes' just cuz I like them. Like we say in my country: let's call the animal by it's name, if you get my drift

sis- did you see any tags for BJ ALEX. Smh anyways-

Right! That shit was so disturbing seeing the comments I couldn't even. Like bruh it's rape are y'all blind.

I'M SAYING NIGGA LIKE YOOOOOOOOO I REMEMBERED THAT I SAID NAH THAT SHIT WAS RAPE

YO RIGHT. It's so sad, like I really hope fujos don't see that shit irl and be like "lol that's not rape." Like...come on.

I've been in this community for 7 years love. Rape is still rape, defending rape is defending rape acting as if it's not there. If you got a rape kink no kinkshaming boo but having a rape kink and frankly defending rape acting as if it's not there because your a fujo doesn't make sense.

Also "HOT SEME

that's on period. straight facts my guy.