OiDawson want to read (All 453)
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does anyone know that it is close to final or?
I think the author says this will have 3 seasons.
I couldn't wait and I read it so I guess I'll keep waiting for the new chapters☹ thanks for your reply though
Sure, no biggie.
Now I will ask a very personal question. English is not my native language and I am not in a good enough state of mind to bother with making proper sentences, so I will use direct translation. If you do not understand, please tell me.
A very close friend of mine's brother passed away and I can't figure out how to approach her about this. Our homes are about a half hour drive away but I feel like it's a little early for me to be there physically because I don't know the circumstances of her family members and my friend has friends who are there to support her right now.
I could only talk to her briefly via text, and that was when she told me about her brother's death. I told her I could come right away, but she said she felt my presence and there was no need. A few hours later, I couldn't help but write again, and she replied a day later and said it was good that I existed, that she loved me very much and didn't need me to come, and that she didn't even remember when she sent me those first messages. Then she said she would call me soon and talk to me.
I know she is in a very bad situation right now and this is the first time I have experienced something like this and I can't figure out how to approach her. I don't think she needs any words of comfort right now, I just want to listen to her and let her feel my support. I have no idea how to continue this situation while talking on the phone. Should I ask her something and help her open up? Should I say nothing? Should I try to distract her? Should I honestly say that I don't know what to do but that I want to help her?
I really don't want to make things worse for her, she's not someone who would misunderstand me, but I really can't be sure about anything right now. The only reason I haven't physically gone to her is because I can't figure out if she wants it or not because I don't want to be a burden when her family is there and I know my friend isn't alone.
Has anyone been in a situation like this before? How did you act? If anyone has an idea, please help me, I would be very happy. Thank you for your time
well i suggest you should just go and meet her to her house. regardless of whether you think she wants you there or not, cuz i think it's common courtesy? nevertheless, as your friend i think she would be glad that you'll be there for her, she's going through a tough time rn, yes her family is also there for her but having a really close friend next to you really helps, there's a clear difference between texting and being there physically, so "man up" bestie. go give her a big hug, she deserves it :))
personally I think going to her house is a nice gesture. Some people say they want space, but at the same time they crave to be vulnerable with someone at the moment too
Perhaps give a gift instead and visit her? If she says she genuinely doesn’t want you to stay then you can just leave anyway after giving the gift. If not then stay and become a shoulder for her to cry on. It’s better to show that you cared enough to show up and actually be there for her instead of just empty words
My deepest condolences to your friend.
I've personally been in the same situation as your friend and during those times, I acted like I was alright around everyone but I mourned and cried endlessly when I was alone. Everyone grieves differently but I think everyone also needs someone to lean on. Even if they don't open up or say anything, just let them know that you're always there for them. They'll greatly appreciate it.
As of now, I think your friend needs time to think on her own. Give her time to process and to release the emotions swelling up in her. No need to distract her from her feelings because it will not change the fact that someone close to her has passed away. It may take a long time for her to fully move on because acceptance is a slow process. There is no need to rush anything. Just remember to always be there for her whenever she needs your company.
I don't know your friend personally so I don't know if my advice would be the best for your situation but I hope you find it in you, to see fit and do what you could for her. I'm truly glad that you care so much for your friend and I wish you two the best ♡
Thank you for your answer and interest. According to my culture, it is not appropriate to go to their home immediately after condolences, and if I go to their home, I will be a burden to them as a "guest" because they are currently grieving and taking care of their relatives who have arrived. So I have to wait for a few days when I can be alone with my friend at least because I think she is busy too
I definitely plan to visit my friend and her family in a few days when they are less busy. Thank you for the gift idea, I will definitely think about it. Thank you for your interest and answer
Thank you very much. I also think he may need some time alone to fully grasp the situation because in the short time we were texting, he was sending messages and voice recordings as if nothing had changed, probably because he was still in shock. Knowing that someone is with him physically and emotionally right now makes me feel a little more comfortable, so I want to give him a little more time. But I can't figure out exactly what I should talk about during the time we talk on the phone or in person. I think this is something that can't be planned and will be acted upon
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can anyone share the link of the popular and free novel site? I don't remember the name but some people said that all novels can be found there
oh, I think I misworded what I wanted to say, I meant the original novels of webtoons or manhwas, sorry. Thank you for the answer
I looked at the site and it's really useful but I don't think it's what I'm looking for. I guess this site shows where I can read novels from different site or different translate scans but it's not the one that sharing the chapters. The site I'm looking for has novels of webtoons or manhwas, like not translated, just raws. thank you for reply and help tho
(▰˘◡˘▰) yw
how many side chapters does it have?
9-10 I believe! I looked at the raws so we have a couple months :p