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Right? Hes so smooth

Nahh remember the part where they talked about kuroe past in that past he. revealed whenever he was hungry he would go to his, neighbour so sonoji mom was his neighbour who would feed him its such a small detail that. you'll have to reread to remember

Natori knew who he was before starting the relationship and he knew what he was getting into. Besides, changing livelihood is not as easy as night and day, and there is always a chance that you get find out about your past in porn and get fired, that happens quite often (something similar happened to me, got fired after i was exposed as a stripper and got fired from an office).

So, i don't agree that Seo is being selfish. They have talked about it and came to an agreement, so it is not like Seo didn't even consider Natori's side. Of course there will be times where your partner is uncomfortable, but that comes with every aspect of a relationship, not just dating a pornstar. Natori just needs to build more confidence and trust in their relationship that he will not crumble emotionally for dating a pornstar. It's fine to have Natori's insecurities, but at the same time, you have to have trust in your partner's love for you

Exactly! Seo didn't put a gun to Natori's head to date him. If it's such a problem for Natori, he's honestly just going to have to let Seo be and date someone else.

(*In the most dry, sarcastic, monotone voice you can imagine*) Oh no how awful Seo is doing a job he enjoys and earning a living. How fucking awful of him to continue doing a job he was doing before he started dating, that he enjoys doing. How horrible of him.

*Hands you a bumper sticker that says "I don't understand the intricacies of sex work and think it's just like normal sex"* for you my dear.

Seriously, if it was any other line of work it would be seen as the bad thing it is to force someone to quit their job for their lover. But some of you think sex workers are lesser people and it shows.

That’s definitely not what I was trying to say. My point is that Natori was clearly uncomfortable with Seo’s job. Seo is also not enjoying his job (which he has previously stated before) and he said that he only likes doing it with Natori.
I don’t know where you’re getting this “sex workers are lesser people from” lol because they’re working just like anyone else, and most of them have their reasons for doing so.

I don’t think you understood my point. Seo clearly stated that he doesn’t enjoy having sex with ppl other than Natori, and Natori has also been visibly uncomfortable with Seo’s job, which leads to my question of why Seo hasn’t considered quitting.

I agree with what you’re saying. Imo if Natori can’t handle his relationship with Seo, they shouldn’t be together. After the recent event in the story I feel like Seo could have done more to comfort Natori instead of jumping into sex but it is yaoi.
I still think that Natori gave up a lot for Seo and went through much more than he did in their relationship, so that’s where my view that Seo is selfish came from. A relationship should have sacrifices from both parties and so far Seo hasn’t done much. There are always ups and downs in relationships(like Natori being uncomfortable) but Seo should’ve done more to comfort him, and they should have more communication.

I hope you’re doing ok though.

Aaah I misunderstood, my bad. I'm off in these comments taking on all the anti-sex workers, lol.

I wouldn't even say Natori was clearly uncomfortable with it though if I'm being honest - like he was when he SAW it happening, but like...He totally wasn't expecting to, and I feel like that's a lot different than knowing it's happening but not seeing.

I agree that if Seo isn't happy with the work that quitting is valid though. Viva people doing what they want

Oh lmao I was wondering why you said that

I saw it as Natori being uncomfortable, like you said perhaps he didn’t really see the reality of Seo’s job until he sort of.. saw reality?? Like when Natori saw Seo with someone else and assumed Seo was cheating, and not just doing his job. I feel like if Natori was comfortable with the relationship he wouldn’t have jumped to conclusions. But yeah Seo doesn’t seem to be happy with his work and ik it’s hard for him to find a new job but yolo, do what makes u happy as long as it’s legal

Eh I feel like it could be really different like, seeing and knowing are not the same thing in my opinion. Like as a COMPLETELY unrelated example: If I knew a friend puked I would feel bad and wish them well, but if I SAW it happen I would do that but also have a panic attack because I have a phobia of vomit vhakchaj. It's completely unrelated but just an example of how it's like. It hits different if that makes sense?
Plus he was brought there without warning, which is just really slimey to me. Screw that guy.

But yeah, doing what makes you happy (if legal) and being honest with your partner is what matters here. I just hope they keep communicating and find what works for them.

I’m a little confused bc what you’re saying seems to be exactly what I’m saying?? I meant Natori was like “Seo is a pornstar and I’m comfortable with that” until he saw Seo with his costar and jumped the gun thinking Seo was cheating, and then when Natori saw Seo on set doing his job, Natori got even more insecure and uncomfortable.
Maybe you’re saying that Natori is only uncomfortable once he faces the situation, but if he doesn’t think about it or see it(like your phobia) then he’s alright with it. I think that just signals that Natori is uncomfortable even more since he’s not really facing reality, and instead he’s choosing to put it aside.
Kind of the same thing tho