well... if you think a man's body is A N Y T H I N G like what you see in yaoi you're in for immeasurable disappointment and I fear you just might not ever recover from the shock so please just WAIT until you're older, I guess. Just stay away from people's genitals until you're comfortable with it please, I'm mortified
Yaoi itself isn't problematic. The delivery is. Alot of yaoi romantacize rape and abuse. They normalize toxic behavior in a relationship which isn't OK. If you don't go around gay people irl with a note book and ask them to fuck infront of you, I don't see how it would be fetichizing gays. It's fiction and most of the time yaoi are in no way, shape......
So I am a straight guy and I think yaoi is pretty alright. Yeah the intimate scenes make me uncomfortable sometimes, but it's alright considering this is only fiction and there are many Yaoi Manga/Manhwa/Manhuas that's all about drama. But I do majorly read it for the non-cliche storyline unlike many Shoujo's. (And yes I do read Shoujo. I ready eve......
spoiler heheh