Hello! I studied this term in college, because I asked myself some of that questions too (even if I'm female). To sum it up, gay romace between two men is interesting for many women because of the gender itself. First, as a man, women would not have to fear pregnancy - it means having fun with sex without that kind of risk (diseases excluded here).......
This friend told you that your ex was too good for you? He doesn't sound like much of a friend. If you feel like you're not ready for a relationship, don't get into one just because you're being pressured. You're not an asshole for not wanting to be in a relationship. If this guy really does like you, he won't push you and will be ok being just fri......
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