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So like, their relationship doesn't seem to healthy, but I feel like he also wasn't in a good place to start with. Usually absolutely loosing yourself when your partner dies is a bad sign in a relationship cus of the degree of attachment. That doesn't mean becoming depressed or grieving or feeling like you lost a part of yourself are bad or abnormal. It's just to the degree which he acted. As well as the lack of communication. Also being literally obsessed with your partner is NOT a good thing.