Like his inner monologue going on about how he needs to control himself to properly have her and deciding the best way to manipulate her into loving him was to be endlessly kind to her and help her out without telling how rich he is so she doesn't feel inferior or a gap in their social standing and pushes him away. It's like bro is doing all the red flag wrong stuffs in the right way :3 he's the only red flag im willing to be colorblind for till now hehehhehehe and nO it's definitely not cz how hot his hands are-