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I’m painting a Jean jacket! This one’s just for practice while I get the feel for painting on fabric, so literally anything goes. So far I’ve mostly got some Gustav Klimt // Rothco inspired square detailing on the sleeve so far but the rest is a blank canvas! Any suggestions? (Am gonna already add a punpun and something from cardcaputrer Sak......   4 reply
09 01,2025
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I’ve done the do with a few people, but none of my experiences were super great. In one relationship I had no sex drive because I was depression, while in another the sex was made not that great by the fact that I was in an abusive relationship that could rival a shitty yaoi. Anyways, while I don’t have a story about great sex, I’ve got a ......   2 reply
04 03,2020

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I felt a lot like you do when I was first starting high school. I used to feel bad and worry about not loving the people in my life enough and worry what loving someone romantically would be like and could I do it right? Even when I finally started dating, I felt bad like I wasn’t liking someone back as much as they liked me. .... long story sho......   reply
11 02,2021
I thought I would comment on this because I currently work at a nursing home carrying out physical and occupational therapy plans for very old and/or very disabled patients. for myself personally, I would consider a disabled persons entirely datable so long as they were capable of living independently/managing their condition primarily on their own......   1 reply
10 10,2020
I had a dream that I went to Australia for thanksgiving, and I went on a walk and was gored to death by a cassowary bird. They’re the worlds #1 most dangerous bird y’know Like, the velociraptors of 2020 Jesus I’m still having nightmares of that nightmare   1 reply
26 08,2020
I’m not a particularly extroverted or introverted person, and I’ve had my fair share of dating experience, but I remember feeling the same way as you described back when I was just starting high school. I would worry that I would never really develop deep romantic feelings for someone, or that if I did I would be rejected.., But the truth is ......   reply
15 03,2020

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Hey! For a while now I’ve been working on a list of emotionally compelling, well written stories with strong female leads. Could you look it over and tell me what you think? Have you read any of these? Are there any stories that you feel that should be on this list?

It’s called: “female leads so powerful they turn you gay”
https://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/565072/

I’ve written detailed reviews for most of the titles on the list.




BONUS RAMBLE ON THE NATURE OF A “STRONG FEMALE LEAD”

I was prompted to make this list due to my growing disappointment and disgust in the sheer number of “strong/powerful female lead” lists that just turned out to be another list of Mary-Sue isekai girls with the same dumb revenge plot. Like idk. There are some really good transmigration stories but a majority of them are very surface level in the character writing where the girl cuts her hair and learns swordfighting, or dates a wizard that’s secretly the prince, and defeats her unambiguously evil abusive ex family. She’s almost never has to grow as a person in ways that don’t have to do with money or power… and she never has to grow as a person because Mary sues have “no flaws” and authors rarely put them in situations where they make mistakes that can’t be fixed with a simple “I’m sorry”.


Afdgshsjdhkahs! Ramble over, I still love fluff isekai/transmigration plots but they need to stop infesting strong fl lists. Like just because you started a reverse harem and got rich selling tea and cookies does not make you a bad bitch! Have a difficult conversation with your mother about boundaries where one of you cryies! Whistleblower on corporate sexual misconduct even though it’ll cost you your career! Appologize to someone you deeply wronged when you were young and stupid, not because you expect to be forgiven, but because it will help them heal. Make a tough decision between protecting your family, and turning a blind eye to a truely evil injustice. THESE are the stories of strong women I want to hear.

growth comes from struggle, making tough choices, realizing hard truths about yourself and owing up to them. Strong characters are much more than physical ability/smarts/luck/competence. A strong character is a that is interesting and emotionally compelling, the flaws make the virtues shine brighter because it’s easy to do good in a perfect world with a perfect mind, but it takes strength to act with integrity and empathy when you yourself are plagued with fears and self doubts and exhaustion of your own.


Okay ramble over fr this time.
19 12,2024

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did go to college

I was always the black sheep throughout my primary and high school years, so being in a more mature environment feels extremely liberating

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did become gay

not quite gay. half gay? I'm bi

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did disturbing thing you saw

Ronnie McNutt. Forgot abt it till I saw this question and his name appeared in my head. I'll never forget. I was so young when I watched it

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