For the life of me, I cannot remember what this yaoi was called and my memory is vague but basically it's two idols of some sort who find bl about them and get so turned on by it that they literally start doing it with each other from all the tension XD please help
Lmao, nevermind, I found it! https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/oretachi_namamono_desu/
That thing where we don't think about the nuance of a character past surface level content we see on the screen, read it again, BOTH of them were abused, he's not purposefully being a jerk, he's unintentionally harming her because of his own perspective of normality towards abuse and neglect that he grew up with in the household.
Thiiiiiiis is what everyone forgot when he turned up. I feel so bad for him.