It's the child grooming, borderline incest and pedophilia for me . . .
Jesus Fucking Christ you're really out here trying to justify pedophilia? Ok, then what if one day your brother/sister goes "@Miss_Fujoshi, I'm in love with our mother/father, it's true love." Is that true love as well? Age gap is definitely important: what is there that's attractive about a child to an adult? You think any 25 year old would look at a 16 year old and go "It's true love uwu"? No, they'd see someone to rape and abuse for years.
If the mangaka had portrayed these typical yaoi dynamics in a slightly different way, she/he could've written a yaoi manga depicting an abusive relationship that could've revolutionized the yaoi community. Because make no mistake, this is a textbook abusive relationship.(● ̄(エ) ̄●)
Manga like these is why I don't trust the ratings on this site.
Maybe I'm getting too stuffy about the logistics, but a 28 y/o police officer who's holding a position of power over a 19 y/o kiddo he's supposed to be watching makes for a very questionable premise; and a strange abuse of power. Add to that the match-making scene which was pretty unnecessary. Like, no one has to tell their partner everything, but since it's a new relationship feelings are bound to be more fragile and unstable, so Gou hiding the fact that he was invited to a mixer by a colleague from Akihito just seems to be asking for more 'drama'. He could've easily explained the situation to Akihito and reassured his much younger partner instead of calling him a spoilt child (although Akihito is still practically a kid) and then getting pissed over Akihito's reasonable insecurities. Idk, this just didn't do it for me.
Hooo boy! I hope he gets an actual redemption arc even if a lot of his feelings - not his actions - were hella justified. I'm glad that someone noticed that even without her memories, the Princess' very core changed. Nurture plays a huge role in someone's life, but so does nature; the Princess' lack of memories changing her inherently as a person is possible but not guaranteed. I hope that Nadricka will also realise that FL isn't really the Princess otherwise I'll be really disappointed.
I can't be the only one who feels horrible for him. Sure, our current FL suffering cause of him wouldn't be right since she's not the OG princess, but the dude's had his family killed, kingdom destroyed and was essentially raped by the princess and used as a tool. He also seems to developed some truly tragic, twisted feelings towards her because of the disconnect between the abuse he suffered at the OG princess' hands and the empathy and regret the FL shows him. Now, as he views it, the princess who ruined his life and abused him so thoroughly doesn't want to interact with him anymore and is telling him to live his life even though he doesn't really have one because of her. Add to that Yuriel a girl he loved who ended up betraying him and the poor guy can't catch a break. No one in this novel has suffered like him yet the readers are clearly biased and unsympathetic.
I'm not judgmental enough, or so insecure, that I'd call a person with multiple partners a slut. It wasn't cool of Kenma to string along the men he was dating, nor for Kuroo to be so forceful and judgmental about a relationship he had no clue about, but they're young so they'll learn. If you can't read about a character dating quite a few people one after the other then do some self reflection.
That being said, we were robbed of good sex!
No comment on the story because I haven't finished it, but the sight of this skinny ass twink with sticks for arms being some badass fighter made me wheeze ε=ε=(ノ≧∇≦)ノ Like IK that's probably sensei's art style but I can't take the sight of these malnourished twerps being any good at fighting. Like bro! Where's your muscle mass?(≧∀≦)
Everyone has their own preferences and kinks. What works for some might not work for others and that's perfectly okay as long as we don't let it affect our everyday behaviour. That includes commenters who dislike the manga because if you honestly can't deal with people disliking something you like then you need to grow tf up. Not everything thinks this shit is gold.
That being said, don't try to morally justify this bs either. Unless you're clear on what child grooming and pedophilia is, a lot of your opinions aren't backed up by facts at all. This manga does glamorize child grooming and pedophilia by showing it as true love or something, and if that wets you wanker then whatever. But don't try to provide justifications especially by saying stuff like the age of consent is 13 in Japan (no, it's not, and the age of adulthood is still 18) or that people in Japan would accept this (hentai showing f/m rape is also accepted and popular, so is sexualizing underage girls so what's your point?).
You like this stuff, then go ahead. But don't gatekeep when people who're genuinely concerned and not buying into the delusion that fiction doesn't affect reality express their distaste, as is within their complete right to do so.
spill bestie!!
Much charmed (づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ