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Hello, im a 24yrs old asian female and i have a bf for 3 years now. My family have been talking about marriage but tbh i feel like i dont connect with my bf .our conversation has been very very boring the usual how’s ur day. He is kind but he’s not ambitious and i have been earning more than him. But he’s really nice but i dont feel happy and he doesn’t put effort anymore. (We just have long distance relationships but only talk for 1 hour every week)

There is also another guy that is just chasing me. (Ofc he knows i have a bf). But weirdly he have every single thing my bf does not have that i want.

I have been thinking hard about what to do. I dont know and i also will not cheat on my bf. So even if i do go with this new guy, i need to decide if i want to risk it or not and break up with my bf.

Any thoughts hehe? :(