Haji deserves a slut like him and not a gentlemen like Horang. I don’t even understand why Horang is even in love with him. The author should have at least made Haji have some decent, likeable features or a likeable character but he doesn’t have any of those. Just WTH?
"haji was just feeling lonely" and? that does gave him the rights to play w anyone's feelings? "I'll sleep w u to find out if you are my soulmate" the fuck?after he had seggs w horang he just realized that he REALLY love him and he'll date him. aint gona be surprised if he only love horang bcs of his body LMAOAOAOAOAOAOAOAOA
First of all, Haji doesn’t owe anyone anything. He stated his intentions clearly and had any party involved agree. Horang knew where he stood with Haji and respected those boundaries while still politely courting him. That respect and earnest is what won Haji over in the end. Haji isn’t in the wrong by going out with people and gaining experience (including sleeping with them). Anyone who thought there would be more than the five date rule he established were the ones expecting more from him than what was agreed upon. Horang was able to win his heart bc he didn’t feel entitled to Haji.
Your reasoning for that is only bc Haji slept around. That’s not reason enough. It’s not a reason at all.
There is nothing wrong with Haji dating and sleeping with other people before he settles down with Horang.
Haji’s reasoning for it was that he didn’t want to rush into anything or get just confused over love and he wanted to be sure of himself before he did settle down. That’s perfectly fine. (Even if his reasoning was bc he wanted to fool around and have fun that still would’ve been fine because everyone is entitled to live their life how they want as long as it’s safe and consensual.) Haji even had clear boundaries and conditions with each partner he met before (with a five date rule and even when he described the steps he would take with his previous partners to Horang during their night together). He didn’t owe them anything but his honesty and he followed through on it. It was only those who felt entitled to more than he said he was willing to give that were in the wrong. He didn’t lead them on he told them upfront that it’s only be five stars and what he was looking for was just experience. Horang understood that and he respected Haji’s boundaries even when Haji was still dating other people. Horang respected his boundaries and politely courted him within those parameters. This respect is what eventually won Haji over. Horang never felt entitled to Haji, nor did he shame for dating around.
Shaming Haji and saying Horang deserves better is missing the pint of consent and mutual respect and understanding that is needed for a healthy relationship. Which, is what I think why the author included this.
Understand that you saying this could make others around you feel unsafe or unwelcome. Rn we are talking about fictional characters so there is no impact upon them, but this easily can be a topic in the real world and this kind of mentality will hurt others. So maybe take the time to read the essay. Maybe you’ll learn something from it and grow and become a more inclusive person
uhuh i know how to differentiate fictions from real life. i don't care whether a person in real life go hang out w anyone. yes, we are talking abt haji, a problematic shitty attitude fictional character. If you are offended but what ive said, then that aint my problem. are you haji? nah? LMAOAOAOAOAOAOSOA go read your own essay
uhuh i know how to differentiate fictions from real life. i don't care whether a person in real life go hang out w anyone. yes, we are talking abt haji, a problematic shitty attitude fictional character. If you are offended but what ive said, then that aint my problem. are you haji? nah? LMAOAOAOAOAOAOSOA go read your own essay
Such unnecessary drama again. The grandpa is probably gonna die soon. Just wait and go to the other country together. How can someone even be ok to be apart from their children? The last chapters of the second couple don’t even make Sense
What even are you saying. Are you young or ignorant? A sht ton of people IN REAL LIFE choose to spend time with their dying/soon to die family before their kids THATS THE NORMAL THING. My mom was beside my uncle dying of cancer, my best friend's dad was beside his dying father too, and so many other people I know wanted to spend their loved one's last moment with them.
If you can't understand something like this I'm guessing you're just an entitled post 2003 kids bc only y'all can just be this confidently fake woke
I don’t really like the characters here. None of them has a personality. Uke is always like “I don’t care about you. All about sex“.. Seme is like “I‘m gonna do anything I want but you gotta stay with me“.. they don’t really have any chemistry. And now that old, dead crush?? Why do I even care about who Jeha was in love with in the past? I need character and relationship development in this story. Not unnecessary love stories of the past. I won’t drop this one because I‘m curious how the part in the first chapter happens but still I‘m not a big fan anymore
Gaku waited for ten years for him and stupid Kunimi did so many stupid things in this ten years. Going out with psychos and making a mess out of his life. That’s what he gets if he lets go of such a perfect guy. At the end he tried to kill himself. WTH? He still has the face to go to Gaku.. But it’s really weird that Gaku waited for him for TEN WHOLE YEARS and never really went to see Kunimi even if Kunimi was such a stupid person. I mean the person you‘re waiting for has almost died, you don’t know anything about him, you didn’t try to find him but when he comes to you you’re like “I have been waiting for you for 10 years“ Lmao that doesn’t even make sense. The story started well but it went downhill at the end. I had too much expectations
Well yeah..., but Kunimi has had his own life, he doesn't had to think about Gaku or tried to find him all time. I guess Kunimi thought Gaku hate him bcs of that what he sad and he also didn't even watch news so he didn't know nothing. And I think when Gaku said he waited for him 10 years, he just didn't have partner or someone he liked more than Kunimi and he more thought about work and more things.
But I agree, story started well a thought there will be something really shocking! Like when Kunimi can't remembered Gaku, I started imagined, that maybe Gaku also tried khs and he trying fix the past, bcs he like his senpai but he never tried speak with him or whatever. So they both would be from the future...hehe, thanks for reading this, sorry if I write something stupid, english is not my 1 language
I thought the story was well throughout and written pretty decent. In a way, everything kinda does makes sense. You probably never imagine waiting for someone for 10 years but Gaku’s whole life inspiration was Kumini. They were both in back of each other’s mind all the time. if something touched my heart even a little, I will try to remember it for long as I can. lol also why are u shitting on Kumini? Kumini was like 18 and still so young. Most 18 years olds …are idiots and if not idiots, we all have made tons of mistakes during those years. It’s just the reality. He’s not a stupid person, he just made the wrong decisions and I’m pretty he regrets it as well. Instead of understanding him for it, why are u judging him? I honestly feel like we read two different stories here, why is ur perspective so negative dude? I mean ur bashing Kumini for wanting to see the dude he loves after waking up from Coma and going through that whole dream. I mean it’s weirder if he doesn’t go see Gaku after all that happened. Anyways, I see that this story didn’t satisfy ur expectations but if these are the reasons why it didn’t satisfy u then I’m sorry to say I do not think it’s the story that was in the wrong.
Finally some character development of the uke. He is showing some signs of falling in love and interest towards the seme instead of having the usual nonchalant attitude