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ok so this situation worked out for the woman because she’s ace, but what about the gay man? Yeah he accepted his life but hes trapped in a marriage dictated by societal norms, pressured to conform as a heterosexual male. He likely cant pursue a relationship w another man due to his marriage, and thats truly heartbreaking. everyone deserves love, and nothing compares to the depth of romantic love especially for the one who seek it, Finding that special someone who loves you unconditionally, who sacrifices for you, and with whom you share a profound connection both body and mind—its an experience thats simply unmatched. So how can being married to a woman bring him that fulfillment? I just dont understand.
To add a personal touch, my great aunt, now in her late 70s faced immense pressure to marry in her youth. Many men sought her hand, even men from another town. but she always declined, later she choose to live with her best friend- who was actually her secret lover - because of society and the harshness that they could’ve faced , they were forced to label themselves as friends, only our close family elderly knows her truth about being a lesbian.
After her partner passed away, she lives alone, childless, and you know she adores children, and I can see a longing in her eyes when she sees them. When I asked if she regretted not marrying a good man, perhaps she’d even be happy and perhaps she could’ve had a chance for a happy life even with that man, she gave such a genuine smile and said “No” . The love and sacrifices she made for her partner were profound, and it struck me how powerful love can be, especially for the gays and lesbians, It pains me to see queer individuals pressured to conform to societal expectations and to live and accept it.
While he may have accepted his life, it all began with societal pressure, and honestly, I find no joy in the ending at least for his character.