Today my step siblings brought up the issue about me watching yaoi and they were laughung saying that I watch pornography. I mean yeah yaoi is a kinda exotic and stuff but should it be considered as watching porn? As much as I tried to deny that it wasn't porn in my head I realized that it was not far from it. I tried to raise the point that in yaoi there is a story in it but at the same time I felt so exposed and I did not like it. How should I defend myself from criticism or how should I make myself not feel bad about reading it?
I know what you mean and I did try to accept it to them and said 'yes i do watch gay porn' but then it's annoying because they were busy laughing and making jokes like you search for porn to watch and you are dirty or that you are a sex master like seriously how annoying is that? So when you get teased like that sometimes you just feel like denying it even after accepting it.
I totally get what you mean, like I don't watch yaoi for the sex or anything, I mean if the story is great the sex part is just a bonus, or no sex at all is good if the story is great like this one http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/smells_like_green_spirit/ . I'm 19 and not a young girl or anything so there's nothing wrong with me reading it. But then people will always want to make you seem dirty for reading it or just make fun of you and that sucks
when my cousins bring this up I just rebut with "it's like a telenovela/kdrama, only it's with two guys and sometimes there's sex."
honestly the idea that yaoi = gay porn will always be there. even if you're in it for the fluff. imo, its only a matter of developing a thick enough skin to not give a fuck about what others are gonna say about it.
explain, please. just because you don't want to be "someone that reads gay porn" doesn't mean it isn't true. if you read yaoi WITH explicit scenes involving sex (not shounen-ai) then it is gay porn. not the story in general, but the scenes where they show dick insert in asshole and *squelch squelch*
ok u can imagine bl like movies some movie doesn't have any mature scene in bl it's called shouen ai and some movie are gonna have mature scenes that doesn't make that porn they have some story to tell like The tale of the yellow dragon or Wolf in the house again some yaoi are gonna be straight up sex and nothing much like Yours to claim or Window to window the whole premise is set up to show them having sex ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ u can call those porn. I hope u got my point
I see. I cant say that you should just brush it off with the you do you attitude because it really did bother you and that would be insensitive of me. All I can say is that there's nothing wrong in reading yaoi (uhm fetishizing is one, but i do think thats not your case haha). I also hope youll be emotionally strong when they continue to bother you with it. Uhm amd here's a good read: http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/cinema_next_door/ Although its just a short scene, Im sure you can sympathize with the neighbor ;> I hope that this story will cheer you up, even just a little. Have a great day!! ฅ^•ﻌ•^ฅ
Sweet and simple ans...... Duh!,, r u a Saint...... Cuz... I'm not.........
And just don't tell anyone that u read yaoi cuz, we can't expect others to understand us....... And of course they'll make fun(cuz it's a job of humans to make fun of other human beings) ... My eldest sis is also Fujioshi and my elder sis is not and she knows that we read yaoi and makes fun of us and we two 200% ignores her and then she'll stop... She even brought it up in front of by bro ... My brother was shocked at 1st time.... And the 2nd time he ignored her too like I am hearing nothing ... Siblings do it in order to tease and for attention. So, don't give them attention........
And others comments r really amusing to read......... ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶
only yaoi? dude, i'm not sure you know what yaoi is. yaoi HAS explicit sex, and they show the dicks (whether lightsabers or uncensored) and shounen-ai is more focused on plot and is basically a shoujo but with two boys, so NO sex. For example, At the End of the Road isn't yaoi, which means it had a gay couple BUT no gay sex :)
these 3 are tagged as yaoi and have a decemt plot but...
NOT PORN pg28-31:
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/utakata_no_uroko/hs/mpn_chapter-2218737/pg-28/
BORDERLINE PORN pg33-38: http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/the_man_in_the_mirror/uu/iur_chapter-4/pg-33/
PORN pg12-18:
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/sensei_wa_butchozura_shite_yatte_kuru/mi/dfa52143760fe448adaeb4e56a239b69_chapter-6/pg-12/
"as long as they show love between the two parnters" So you mean to say romanticized porn is not considered porn? Romanticized porn is a thing in the porn industry though Also, do you mean to say that Zilv Gudel, a gay porn actor who posts sext tapes with his fiance on PH, is not posting porn videos?
Well..... Yaoi shows sex so it is in one way porn but not entirely...... And of course, when someone gonna make fun of u they'll choose the weakest point.... AND if u want to know what comes under porn or what doesn't then Google it..... Books also comes in Porn which shows *"#@...... my book" thermodynamical physics "is also a book but it doesn't mean it's porn...... In same way u can't describe something by considering one point of view.... U have to relatively consider it........ And they shau-natae asking how to deal with others who just consider it as porn.........
calling a spade a spade.. I agree with spoopy mushroom here. if it's yaoi then you can definitely expect there to be explicit sex.
it just so happens that not all Yaoi is centered around the sex. Some has fluff story with minimal/short/not so graphic erotic scenes (but the sex is still definitely there or atleast is heavily implied), while some has dem hot and steamy, get down and freaky sex (what I would consider porn).
Shounen Ai however is all that fluff with some kissing and light petting maybe? ya know PG13 stuff.
I'm 19 and my cousins the girl one is 12 and the boy is 15 so like they are kids and i asked them if they have never seen porn before and they said, 'they have but unlike me they don't go around looking for porn to read'. The point that they are not real life people simply did not go through to them and really they are exhausting.
Well I didn't tell them that I read yaoi, more like my she was using my computer without permission and happened to see it and i don't like people using my things without permission and that also pissed me off. I think what you said is true and good advice, the best solution is to just ignore them because if you try to respond it'll be like adding fuel to the fire.
Hey guys, I would very much appreciate if I could get manga recommendations for manga similar to the following (which include a sword-woman or/and strong female lead ) :
1) Reiri - http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/reiri/
2) Soloist of the Prison - http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/soloist_of_the_prison/
3) Kemono no Souja - http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/kemono_no_souja/
- Emprtor and the female knight : http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/emperor_and_the_female_knight/?vHT3
- Reiri : http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/reiri/
Have you tried this one?
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/reminiscence_adonis/
Isn't anyone going to talk about how the omegas lifespan had been shortened due to the overuse of the suppressants and now added unto that is childbirth which they stated made his body frail so basically he doesn't have many years up ahead and is gonna die soon.
So though it was a happy ending, when I think about their years to come all I see is grief and pain for the alpha and the child and that really breaks my heart, it's literally sinking and I feel like I'm the only one... am I?
You're not the only one, i share the pain with you ಥ_ಥ
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but on the bright side, their son managed to grow to past infantry and Mio is still alive... also i think Keisei had them live in the countryside so Mio can continue to recuperate, in a way at least he's far from those stressful relatives
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NOOOOO DON'T REMIND ME
That fact just makes this good manga depressing and I hate that
Lol sorryyyyy
Yeah that's the bright side, but then there is also the fact that Keisei and his son don't really have a good relationship, so if Mio were to die it kind of gives off the vibe that the two won't have a good relationship since the son thinks that his dad hates him due to the fact that he made his moms body weak and keisei doesn't seem like he really knows how to communicate which makes their relationship very fragile
lol sorrry
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