It’s been a while since I read such a contemporary manga. I think it captures the loneliness of gen Z and our modern problems pretty well. Personally I don’t understand falling in love with the online persona of a person, but I do have friends who got married with someone they met online.
Plus can we agree that his parents are the cutest? I almost cried.
It happens. People grow apart. Some do, some don’t. While it’s sad, it shouldn’t be something you felt like it’s a taboo to even talk about with your partner. Plan for it, even, so if it ever happens you are prepared.
Normalizing breakup is not necessarily a good thing to do. there’s this thing called self fulfilling prophecy. always thinking ‘we’ll eventually breakup’ will only cause a breakup because you do not have the mindset to fight for the relationship. If my bf wants to talk about what what we should do if we breakup will make me think ‘this guy is not interested on being with me long term’
Anyway, what I think we need to promote is moving on in a healthy manner. No obsessing or clinging to a person who is no longer interested. No excessive drinking or partying or sleeping around etc
I mostly agree with you. I think “always thinking about breakup” is too much. Overthinking about anything is unhealthy. But it’s not a bad thing to discuss about it or be prepared. You don’t think the person is in it with you for the long term because you unconsciously associate breakup talk = not serious. Obviously it depends a lot on the tone of the actual talk and the nature of your relationship plus other factors.
I think my partner and I talked about how there’s no guarantee for “forever” around 3 months into our relationship. We both agreed. 10 years later we are still together. Like all tough discussions, a certain level of open-mindedness can keep it in the right direction.
Are you telling me that years worth of separation anxiety can be diminished by having sex and a ring? Cool. Still no solid communication whatsoever.
You’d be surprised people don’t generally like confrontations aka communicate with each other so I think this relationship is actually pretty prevalent XD
I agree lol. If anything I feel like his possessiveness would have grown ten fold after they had sex. But they act like sex means they are married. This couple has been super frustrating and I can only blame the author.
Yeah I can def see Gukie’s possessiveness doubling after this but idk I think the drama it adds definitely is working for me cuz the main couple i think already has a good communication in their relationship altho of course not perfect but at least they talk about their feelings?? I just like seeing the contrast of the two couples XD