beta
This is so dumb.
All the uke really need to say is he likes rape play. It's not the extreme he is looking for, it's the lack of control. So the play can go "as far as the other wants" it'll never be enough if he feels in control. But uke is too dumb to know what he want let alone communicate it and the seme totally fail at dealing with the situation and establishing communication.
They're both trash. The uke because he is an self-centered asshole and the seme because he blames everything on the uke.