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How frustrating that whole argument was! ML is upset because someone broke Iljo’s ribs. And Iljo’s response is to jump straight to “let’s break up”? Then he tells ML that his feelings of being sad are hard on him because they make Iljo feel bad about himself?Iljo’s reaction is triggering for me because I’ve been in arguments like that—where instead of addressing the actual feelings, the other person just jumps to “let’s end it” or “fine, we won’t do it at all.” It makes having a real, honest conversation so difficult. Also I dont think the psychology makes sense here it seemed confusing and just a way to add more drama to something that was already over the top.