
I don't really get the Kpop no bf/gf thing. Like I get staying focused and not wantIng them to pull a walk into a gas station bathroom shoeless and make your baby drive the car thing but no ones going to be offended if they have a personal life

People do get offended tho that's the thing. A lot of Kpop idols (or moreso the companies that make them) bank on selling their image as a boyfriend/girlfriend to their audience. Which is why a lot of their songs are about love and dating and all that jazz. Also why you can catch them saying the cheesiest shit. So when their favorite idol is taken, the really hardcore and biggest spender fans freak out. Not saying that there's anything wrong with the idols, it's just facts

I get that idols play a certain role in the kpop theme/industry but I think it is emotionally damaging to deprive them of experiencing intimate relationships. Physical and emotional experiences are needed along with education as life skills to help develop and mature. It is a toxic policy that kpop companies should be demanded to readdress. Finding a lover is a natural part of life that should not be seen as something that is naughty or even dirty! And Kpop should not normalize obsessive spending and should definitely not indulge the behaviour of toxic fans. Idk how they would/could address the last thing about toxic fans but maybe more money could go towards finding ways to control such things? It must be terrifying to be idolized in such a way that people forget about how to respect you as another human being and try to touch you or down right mob you in an airport. (〜 ̄△ ̄)〜
I had to read this twice it was so good. I wonder what he "thought happened" sex or bites? I need to reread this whole thing again from the beginning when it's over.