Well, you could have very easily omitted your personal thoughts on whether they are hypocritical or not and dived straight into the question but you chose to mention it. So it makes me question if your intent was to belittle them or to really find the answer to the question. Anyway here's my answer. It doesn't matter if it's the seme or a stranger ......
2020-01-31 17:47 marked
People fine with rape in yaoi = hypocrites?