Maybe:
1. Don't
2. Send them a message
3. Write them a note
4. Buy a pride flag
5. Pretend that you already told them and just correct them when they use the wrong pronouns/name (optional: come out to your friends first, and they can help with this)
6. Do what I did (coming out as nonbinary) and just tell them (optional: cry a lot as well, because ......
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