Beanbag's Topics (102)

I agree, although I hated Nanmu having sex with someone else, you can tell it's out of self loathing, desperation, crushing fear and loneliness... Also shame on that guy for basically taking advantage of Nanmu's moment of weakness. only a couple days ago I wrote a comment praising him for being loyal and supportive despite having a crush on Nanmu.. Nope he's a piece of shit

Now hold on, why would you hate Nanmu for having sex with Jeolho? Because you should be hating Jeolho, not Nanmu. If you didn’t know, he was drunk and drunk people cannot consent regardless of what they say when drunk, and Nanmu was also in a weakened mental state overall. Everyone should dislike Jeolho, not Nanmu.

I never said I hated him, I adore him, I hated the fact it happened. What I meant is that it was very painful to watch. English is not my first language, maybe I didn't phrase it well.

You said “I hated Nanmu having sex with someone”.
So my brain processed that as you said “I hated Nanmu for having sex with someone”.

I also dislike that. So no worries lol

Which if I'm not mistaken means "I hated that Nanmu did that", not "I hate Nanmu".

Sorry it didn't read your comment carefully. So what I wrote made sense grammatically but I could've phrased it better correct? Just asking for reassurance cause I've always been confident with my English (≧∀≦)

Yes I agree. And with Nanmu being drunk and in his state, consent is practically thrown out the window.
All in all, I feel so bad for Nanmu. I want my baby to be happy again

I trust in Brothers Without A Tomorrow, I know he will have the happiest ending ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶

Nah hated Nanmu for doing it and being alcoholic doesn't give excuse to sleep with anyone both of them knew what they're doing and so the hate for this particular act, everyone is disliking both Nanmu and Jeolho for this.

Well it doesn’t matter cause Nanmu isn’t with Pilgyun at that time. He didn’t promise any commitment. So what if he sleeps with someone? Although he couldn’t consent, Jeolho took his drunk state as an advantage so it’s ridiculous to hate on someone who’s clearly drunk and Jeolho is the one taking advantage

As I said being drunk doesn't give you the excuse to do just anything and they both knew what they were doing also pilgyun would calm him and reassure him still he couldn't wait and trust him but spiraled into his negative thoughts quickly thats why people including me hated what Nanmu did and hated Jeolho for taking advantage of him in name of consoling.

Well Nanmu being drunk and having sex with someone is his choice then and not something to blame someone for. He didn’t know Pilgyun was even still out there, he thought he was abandoned but I do understand how you feel about Nanmu. I was also upset at him for jumping to conclusions and I thought he’d wait out a few days or try to find him. But he just gave in and drank bunch of alcohol, got drunk, and had sex with Jeolho. But we should all be more mad at Jeolho for taking advantage of someone who is dealing with trauma.

Well without a doubt it was his choice that's why he did it in the 1st place but what everyone don't like is the unnecessary choice that he made, that decision of not waiting and trusting despite so much reassurance, is what people are pissed off about, when in previous chapters he was sleeping with other people Pilgyun told him to not do it and Nanmu promised to not sleep other people and be only with him also everyone knows that what Jeolho did was really bad but that doesn't mean Nanmu is innocent in this, at least for me, he'll never be, both of them are at fault. I agree with you about Jeolho but not about Nanmu.

Well I mean Nanmu doesn’t owe Pilgyun anything if he doesn’t want to commit love yet. Pilgyun can’t just say not to sleep around, not his decision. Nanmu sleeping his is choice and I don’t have the right to be mad at him cause he isn’t in a relationship with anyone.

Nah!! Idc just hated it, there could've been different decision but he chose the shittiest one, well I also don't understand, that if they like each other why couldnt Nanmu Communicate better but would go find comfort in another person because he was hurting that pilgun left him on the other hand pilgyun reassured him again and again also told him he loved him too, couldn't Nanmu just wait this is what people are mad about!!?....In the earlier comments you said Nanmu was drunk so he's innocent that's why I said being drunk doesn't give right to fuck around to anyone that's just an excuse, well whatever I'm not gonna change my mind about it, that really left bitter taste in my mouth.

I think you’re a jealous person by nature haha and that’s valid. I do sometimes wish Nanmu acted grown for once but it’s not happening.

Jealous won't be the right word for it lol

Jealous won't be the right word for it lol

Jealous won't be the right word for it lol!!! but yes, I hate cheating and stuff like that. Yup!! It would be nice to see Nanmu that way, I just hope Pilgyun to k*ll the father and if possible the brothers too, I be really happy but I guess that's not gonna happen.

The thing is it’s not cheating . “Cheating- when a person in a monogamous romantic relationship has an emotional or sexual relationship with someone else without their partner's consent.”

And Pilgyun/Nanmu never dated/exclusively together. I do hope Nanmu stops sleeping with his “brothers” though. His habit due to his trauma is too much.