No means No.
A yes once is not a yes forever. It can be withdrawn and should be respected by the other party/ parties.
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It is sad how I am numb to all this bs when it comes to intimacy in BLs now. Hopefully we see him apologize and make amends later in the story. That's all I can hope for now.
Don't read the comment below in the off chance it triggers you since this is my unpopular opinion about this manga
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I liked the story when it started with strong plot and an equally strong romance plot. the character dynamics was dope but the way it turned out- I am not saying it was bad but it was achieved at the expense of developing the office plot. The whole story switched to romance which was toxic. All that excitement that was built abt the job and their abilities was under utilized. So, yeah. The story is good but it didn't fulfill the expectation it set in the beginning. As much as I adore the characters, they were toxic and made me uncomfortable. Thank god everything is alright now but still. It bugs me. Maybe this manga isn't for me. Just wanted to get this off my chest.
I read till chapter 31 hoping it will be cute and fun like it was before the whole flashback part. Does it continue this way for next 100 chapters or does it have a lighter tone to it? I mean, the story is dope but I am not prepared to read a dark story so I just want to know before I dive in again.
I liked it that Mr Han made sure he took Param's consent and Param is self-aware of his desire for Mr Han. Hwi and Param are neither exclusive nor are they in a monogamous relationship. I liked it that author let Param navigate through and realise his fantasies. He has been honest (at least with himself) so far. I am excited to see what happens next!
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The reason why, I think, Asashi gets sullen when they use the word 'defective' is because he once suffered emotionally for not being able to impregnate his wife. She left him after she got pregnant with another guy, even though they slept together only once. In an earlier chapter, Asashi talked about how he felt guilty for not giving her the happiness of motherhood. He considered himself 'defective'
So, this is why it triggers him every time they call the wood for his project 'defective'.
This also goes back to his father in one of the earlier chapters chapter 4 of vol 2 asahi is holding kousei his younger brother quite close as his mother and father are fighting and yelling about how their fathers legs don’t work and how he’s using all of the money the mother makes to buy booze. One of the words she uses is defective, that she doesn’t want to be with a defective man, this word overall just seems to strike asahi in the heart as he doesn’t relate it to good memories that he has.
oh true. not only that, the long haired guy was trying to pinpoint how asahi dated masato because he will no longer have baby stuff problems, because he’s a man. and will masato still love him if he’s just a convenient lover, honestly I feel bad for masato, he’s always kept in the dark. but i think asahi do loved masato, he just needs to fix his past trauma from his cheating ass wife
Feminine men and masculine women or cross dressers and drag queens: they ARE normal. They are NOT exceptions. They were most visible people on the LGBTQIA+ spectrum for decades when homosexuality was a taboo and despite hardships they never backed down. Had it not been for these people at stonewall queer rights movement would have perhaps taken longer to come to forefront and be more visible. There is so much about them that we do not know about their importance in the conversation about queer people. I didn't know until I had to write a research paper on it.
This is good story but him reiterating about how he is 'normal gay' irritated me.
Wait, why did they say "whispered in my ear by wagging his dick in the face" - what? I thought that was a pretty innocent (and hot) whisper. Like, why the "wagging dick" part?
He was being sarcastic while also implying that Sangwoo was overreacting; his big reaction more fitting if ‘wagging his dick in his face’ was something he actually did.
Ahh. I get it now. Thanks!