Is it just me or i totally forget about losing your first where there will be blood once the guy pu it in. Goshh i read to much yaoi and forgot about this thing.
But dudeee i love this already it's been a while since i get goosebumps while reading the straight smut because when i read yaoi/bl i always get goosebumps
*me having broken my hymen with a tampon by accident when I got my period.* Say what now? Man I'm 25 and that's still just so bad lol. But yes, this is totally correct. In fact, things soften the more aroused and relaxed you are so when it *pops* it shouldn't hurt hardly at all and no bleeding at all. :D As always, practice safe smexy times!
Yes it did for me,but it also my EX bf's first time as well,so he was extremely excited and could not stay put lmao. Other than that it was a fun experience. After your first it depends how often you have sex,if you do it everyday you will get used to it,if you dont,you will have a bit hard time to adjust. Then again it depends on who is your partner,is he caring of your pain or does care about his pleasure only?
yeah, it depends if the hymen is intact or not, and it depends on the person's body too! if someones does a lot of exercising, like horse riding for example, the hymen would naturally "rip" and the individual wouldnt have it anymore. and some people just arent born with a hymen, and otheres have thinner or thicker hymens too. (▰˘◡˘▰)
Guys please check out this video that explains the hymen or “popping the cherry”, it’s just a misogynist myth the really should be debunked my now. You’re first time may be uncomfortable but it shouldn’t hurt! https://youtu.be/kfjBKjo0bRc
No i know,my bff didnt hurt at all and bled after a couple of times of her first time. Some women even bleed for the first time while giving birth...its mostly up to how well the chemistry is between the two partners and how gentle the guy is...in my experience,it was his first time same with me,so we had no idea how to build up a better atmosphere at the start
Oh lord yes, you'll bleed when you have a child. Some women bleed a lot, I didn't bleed but for about 2 weeks after having my son. Child birth is on a complete different scale but definitely not something to be scared about if you ever WANT a kid. Every woman is different and experiences things differently. But definitely do research and figure out proper planning and info! Also I totally agree with the whole "first time" crap. My actual virginity was taken by a tampon lol and then my first time having sex was actually with my husband whom I have a kid with. I never held my virginity with high standards lol. Just don't do it with any old Tom dick or Harry that's comes around. Be careful and be safe, that's the most important thing. :D Oh, before anyone asks, my labor experience with my son was extremely easy. I slept through most of the contractions and pushed for 5 minutes and boom. He was out. No pain what so ever until the meds wore off. Then I was just sore.
Whenever you have a child, you've got options for the labor experience. Some women have natural births in tubs without any medicine and the help of a midwife. The most common way is through a hospital with an epidural (basically a little tube they put between two spinal vertebrae that numbs you from that spot down and no, you can't feel it at all when they put it in other than a pressure) so yeah. :D The epidural was what I was so scared of lol now I just laugh at myself for being so scared. It SOUNDS scary I mean, they insert a damn long ass needle into your spine, of course it sounds scary! :O But it wasn't after it was all said and done. XD I was in active labor for 23 hours before I was ready to start pushing. For which I slept through most of. Now. That being said. Everyone is different and a lot of women have a hard time giving birth, it's not always pain free. My son was small, 5 pounds, so it wasn't hard to get him out. You have a bigger baby and it's going to be a little harder, depending on your own body structure. Basically you can't base your own experience off what someone else went through. But with the help of the meds, it's really not too bad.
Reading this several times still makes me feel sad and happy (〜 ̄△ ̄)〜