
i'm actually pretty damn understanding of sohan here because a parent is still a parent, it's difficult as fuck to oppose them even if they've abused you your whole life or something like that, i got pissed when sihwa made him bleed so much. ouch.

Logically, I feel like it makes sense to walk away from toxic parents.
However, if they’re not abusive or toxic 24/7 and you’ve been desensitized to their treatment despite realizing what is being done to you, you think they’re not so bad, or that you have some hope inside that they’ll change.
And this could lead you to think that they’re not so terrible to be abandoned.
Not sure if that applies to our boy Sohan here. I can’t remember if they explain why he feels like he’s responsible for his father.

i knew it was coming, but it STILL hurt. i think i'm extra sensitive to this type of misunderstanding trope because i used to be in a polycule where my lover was dating another person who i was close with... but the friend turned out to not know that they were dating at all and my ex got REALLY pissed off about it. in retrospect? kinda fucking hilarious. but still.
I WAS WAITING FOR THEM TO SWITCH LET'S GOOOO LET'S GOOOOOOO