Lichtvon's Questions (5)

uhh i don't really understand, but if you aren't legally binded with a contract or anything, it remains in your rights to decline whatever, just say you're sorry but you don't want to represent your uni

I'd love to do that... But my life is at stake cuz my parents even know.... Urg

I assume they're all for it? Well, there are two things you can do I believe

#1 - Tell your parents you really REALLY don't want to do it. Through a fit, break down and cry, whatever, make it known that they will be putting you through hell if you have to do it. Say you'll make it up by doing something else.

#2 - just do it. you're still only in Uni so like around 20? When you're older you'll laugh back at that moment, as nothing more than a memory. Here are some tips on public speaking maybe:
https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/specific-phobias/expert-answers/fear-of-public-speaking/faq-20058416
https://www.briantracy.com/blog/public-speaking/27-useful-tips-to-overcome-your-fear-of-public-speaking/
https://www.britishcouncil.org/voices-magazine/how-overcome-fear-public-speaking
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/smashing-the-brainblocks/201711/how-conquer-the-fear-public-speaking

I wish you good luck (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
at least you're not them: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SMKFz-caK-4&t=48s

I'm way over twenty actually
Im just ignoring the fact that I'm getting old... Too old at that

Thanks hahahaha
They've registered me already so it's not like I have a choice anymore
If God wills it, His will be done!!!!!

i would have an abortion but if it's someone else than me i feel like dont have a right to say something, like i shouldn't be telling that person what to do. it's their body anyway they can choose what they're comfortable with but i would support that person either way

Thanks for answering. I'm having a survey

for me personlly, i would keep it because i feel that i shld give the baby a chance to live despite it happening to me. im too softhearted to abort haha but im prochoice ofc :D

Thank you for answering. this helps.

Ah this will always be the hardest question for me. If it happens to me personally, that f up situation, I would probably act without thinking because how traumatizing that is. On what I meant, I might or might not abort it or I might kill it with me or not. Knowing myself, I would be too traumatize to even think

Well about abortion I find it like killing or put ur own body in danger I would never ever thought of putting my body in danger but if It ever happen to me It might depend on condition or situation I m in otherwise giving child a life tht he/she ever thought of or regretting being born it's all up to person who give him/her life but may be I might keep the baby .

Abort it,
If i hit raped and got pregnant i would abort it
Im pretty young so the risk of me dying from giving birth is pretty high. I would also abort it cause its traumatizing as shit and im NOT READY FOR A CHILD.

And if someone i knew got raped and pregnant ill respect her decision if she wants to abort it or keep it.

Thank you for the response hhaha

Thanks for replying. Hahaha

Abortion if the baby is gonna suffer later.
It's better for both of them, the baby that don't know life yet & the mom that won't have her life ruined.

There is many case of woman mistreating their kid because of the trauma they had, and even she wont it could've been difficult for them if the kid take after the rapist, seeing the face of the man that ruined you or that you hate every day & watching it grow, the parent would go crazy..

Of course if the parent doesn't care about that & is ready to take care of the child & giving all the need necessary, then it wont be a problem.

Only the person concerned have the right to choose about their own decisions & actions.
But they must be ready for what will come later.

Because I think that killing the embryo before the brain & feelings are formed is far better than letting it suffer or even mistreated at home or at an orphanage.


//tw ?? Anyway from my point of view abandoning the child is far worse than abortion, of course if the person doesn't have a choice/there was circumstances that didn't allow them to abort then I understand.
But If they could've done that then they should've.

It's a cowardly & irresponsible move to choose to give birth to a baby and abandoning him to an unknown world, wondering why they are even alive.

A child isn't a thing or object to fill the void in your life, they should have at least a futur planned for them at least until they are 18 since the moment they were born, because it become pure responsibility to take care of them & supporting them.
Not only financially but mentally too..

Omg i love you

I'm sorry if my english isn't very good because english isn't my 1st language..
But thank u ヾ(☆▽☆)


I just wanted to ad that if the person can't abort it due to health problem, It's not a problem & surely not their fault.

Your life is more important & it's not as if they wanted to keep the baby.

In this situation if y'all don't want the baby or even think you will hate it, I guess it's better to give birth under X (idk if there is a system in all country abt it but it's when you give up on the baby even before it's born & you will do it anonymously) or to drop them at an orphanage after birth.

If y'all know that y'all won't be able to treat them as human being & will mistreat them or even just go crazy everytime y'all saw them, it's better to let it go directly.
They might get the chance to find a loving family able to adopt them & take care of them.
The chance may be little but it's better than no chance at all living under the parent's abuse..

And if I don't mention letting one of the mother relative get the baby, it's because if its someone close to her, well they might find a way to shame the mother & the kid, or the mother won't be able to be close to the family that adopt them anymore (being afraid to see the child).

If they think about hiding the fact that the mother & kid are related, it might just be a tickling bomb.
And if they don't hide it the kid would surly wonder why their own mother is avoiding them.
Both result won't really end well..

Well I'm always mentioning the worst consequences, if y'all think that one of the option I mentioned negatively might be the good one for the child & you, then it's all for the better ^^

But ig it just would just be easier to choose the less damaging choice for both the person concerned..
Giving birth may be more dangerous than abortion.
But If getting ride of the embryo may cause problem in the futur if they want to have childs with the person they love, I understand too..
Which is why the 2nd option of giving the baby to a family that will be able to take care of them would be better than keeping them & ruining both your life.

(I'm sorry if I repeat myself)

Your english is good,
I just really agree with you, that's why I said I love you LOL, it's really the woman's choice

patience is the key

Yeahhh prerequisites are such a pain I’m dying too :(

I'd seriously consider being a murderer if they're people.... I'll needs to dig losta graves.... Would also accept assassination commissions....

Well. Ma key is rusty... Really really rusty

Bruhhh legit me as well goin crazy ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~ Just need some good anime bls mangas to live on

Imagine my board exam answers be all about BL

Only if I had golden spoon like Kang mo I would be delighted as fuck lol

we can only dream... I'd like mine to be diamond spoon!

If my semester 1 exam all about historical BL I would have top

Bruh, call me Top Notcher

Show me light sabers and I can Identify who's who...