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HeninaKai April 2, 2025 2:10 pm

Now this is the plagiarism we want lmaoooo

HeninaKai April 2, 2025 1:45 pm

I hope you all never meet an aro/ace person in your life yikes. Yes, he was wrong for not telling her that he actually has a hard time feeling any attraction since it looks like he was taking advantage of her feelings. Yes, he was wrong for not addressing it in the 6 years they were together. At that point, he already knew and thought his reciprocation could be equal enough to her affection.

No, he's not a robot and you shouldn't pity him just because he doesn't feel the flutters. He realized these in his hs years and came to accept it during his college years (both young ages, and actually the time where most do figure out this out) It is perfectly normal and don't let society tell you otherwise.

However, yumin also knew that they both started this relationship with their own selfish thoughts. She did approach his family to get on his good books and he saw this effort. She did know that he wasn't fully attracter to her and went along well with her out of obligation. But the moment he asked her out, she thought she finally got him to like her back. He selfishly thought that he can try this love thing with her and see how it goes.

Both did wrong things and took advantage of each other's situation. So, I don't like how he's trying to get back with her cause she's a safe zone for him (cause she doesn't expect much affection back at the start of their relationship and he thought this would be the same even now) However, just because yall don't understand aro people doesn't mean you should invalidate what they are. That's why I liked how she emphasized "Why didn't you tell me?" after learning of the situation instead of "Why couldn't you love me" or "why couldn't you change for me"

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