The last time I had a friend group was in high school.
Now I just have a bunch of friends who i hang out with one on one who have never met each other
We usually just hang out and get food and smoke weed reply
Karma isnt real and i think that that’s something that a lot of people have trouble accepting
I think that most people like to believe that bad people, especially people who hurt us, will themselves get hurt in the future but that’s not true
Sometimes bad people will do bad things and go on to live happy and fulfilling lives without ever facing justice
Sometimes the people who hurt us the most will never face any real consequences for their actions
If you’re lucky the guilt will slowly eat them alive even if nobody else knows and if you arent then they’ll completely forget about what they did and live their lives not weighed down by anything
And then they die and thats it
You can argue that they’ll face some sort of retribution in the after life (if you believe in that) but we dont know that for sure. Nobody does.
For a long time whenever i got hurt or abused by others the one thing that would keep me going was the thought that one day they would get what’s coming to them
That one day they’ll look back and regret what they did to me even if it takes 10 20 or 30 years
But rather than hope for something that i cant control i find myself much happier these days trying to forget about them
If they’re allowed to completely forget about what they did then I’m allowed to do the same
If they can live their lives happily and carefree I should get to do the same
Bro I’m so sick of people commenting on my accent especially cause you bitches can not for the life of you agree on what I apparently sound like
I go to church and it’s all “your American accent has taken over” “you sound white” “you speak like Donald trump (they were being deadass when they said this)”
BUT THEN
I GO TO WORK
AND THE CUSTOMERS WANNA BE LIKE
“Oh where are you from?” “I like your accent” “your accent is really cute and the fact that you don’t realize you have one is even cuter (honestly one of the worst pick up lines I have heard in my entire life like I had to stop everything I was doing just so I could give him a blank stare)
I got curious and asked one time how they knew I was Nigerian because I’m pretty damn sure I don’t have an accent especially when I use my customer service voice and apparently it’s the “incantation of my voice” whatever the fuck that means
Anyways immigrants of mangago please tell me y’all know what I’m talking about and if you do please explain it to me because I don’t understand