I don't exactly remember if there was rape or not but there are manhwas with no toxicity or rape like the yellow dragon, over the moon, love me doctor!, again, uh what else? I think cherry blossom after winter aswell. Monster in the mist was my favouriteeeeeee. And there are more but some are underrated, I had to dig down to find them
When I started reading manga everybody was like: it's just a teenager's obsession. When I started reading yaoi everybody was like: it's just 'cause you're single; you get yourself a boyfriend everything's gonna change. Well... I'm a fujoshi, I've never been in closet, when I got together with my man I told him "take it or leave it, I'm not gonna ch......
I agree with what's said here about gaining and not losing. If it helps anyone, I can only tell my story (of a straight female) : I decided to put an end to this eternal question when I was 19. I had had some crushes before, but it never was a full grown relationship based on enough mutual trust and respect, that I'd be sure he wouldn't tell it ar......
I gave up on bl/yaoi at this point