
I like when there is a real romance between straight and gay...the relationship seems stronger and sweeter...

Sorry, I didn´t mean to fight, it came out too strong.. It certainly is a yaoi "category", but that might be why it bothers me, because it just sort of reflects how difficult it is to be gay in Asia..
I don´t understand what you mean about the hate etc. you lost me there, I love yaoi and gay themed films etc, I just blow off steam once in a while, because labels/names are here to name things that exist, when it is askew it points out there is some kind of an issue.. I am straight, I have some gay and lesbian friends, one trans friend, but under no circumstances I can imagine I would let a woman near me, sexually.. It´s just not there..Yep, sometimes I keep imagining that I would love to be a gay male.. but I think that just shows I have no interest in women at all :) and I am not comfortable with a woman´s role..
PC? politically correct? I hate that.. Because that is what makes you avoid naming things what they are... And that is all I was upset about..
Ugh. Sorry. Just wanted to clear things up.

I kind of thought, from what you wrote, that we might actually be on the same boat..
So US, huh? Just the other day, I saw a youtube vid where a young student (US) was talking how they suggested to "teach" him so that he would be "normal"... And I can´t wrap my head around it that this is the 21st century...
No need to say sorry, I wasnˇt very articulate :)), easy to misunderstand.
Have a nice day... :)
And an ice pack....STAT
it still boggles my mind...how a freaking manga/webtoon can be sooooo damn realistic.. felt like I was in the room