
Not sure if I should give this a go, from most of the comments it seems this is more fanservice than anything. I'm not a fan of reading manipulative interactions or damaging ones about BDSM, as it is something I actually practice daily and love to bits. So I'm not sure if I even want to read this. I've dropped other BDSM themed manga, because of issues like that. I know that they happen in real life in this scene and in things like this they often become somewhat glorified or be used as a tool, which is honestly despicable.
The art is fairly nice I guess? Even though some proportions are extremely off, which is a shame.
Who knows, might give it another go eventually. (〜 ̄△ ̄)〜

To be honest, up to this point I've found only one BDSM-themed comic (which is Sunstone) that I really liked, cause it doesn't portray bdsm as an escaping mechanism from any past trauma and it doesn't show it as a weird practice, filled with this huge desire to hold another person in a complete control. So, if you've never read it, I strongly recommend Sunstone - it's fun, has a nice plot and great relationships
As for Lilith, I wasn't a fan of it, mostly for reasons you already mentioned, so if you're someone who's into bdsm, I think you may be disappointed in this webtoon, tho it's just my opinion

This type of concept I always find absolutely fascinating, makes me want to write my own stories again haha.
Love the dynamic of the two leads, he is a somewhat bitter and still optimistic guy and she is very refreshing, trusting and kind.
The usual personalities with these types of leads, but it works very well and is beautifully orcistrated with the setting, giving it a nice twist.
The art is also outstanding, would definitely recommend to anyone who likes action and game themes.
Might suggest to wait for more chapters though, as it gets highly addictive to read, haha. (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
http://www.gugu5.com/o/wangzuohaoweiwu/ (づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ