
I hope people realize that it's not only gay men who sometimes marry without love. Sure, in these types of stories it happens since its bl, but there's so many cases, more than you'd think of people marrying without being in love. Not just men too, recently in a tiktok video of this women going to her engagement party saying "when I'm still not over my ex" and the comments flooded with men and women comments saying "real". It's sad and scary to see how many people do this when they still have someone else in mind, but I don't think its right just to single out gay people that might do this when it seems like alot of people do it. My parents were actually an arranged marriage, even though they may not love each other like in dramas or books we read, they still have a good relationship together, it may be sad or not ideal for people but that's the world we live in sadly.

Finished reading the raws and GRRRRRR. This is why I kinda hate first love tropes esp when the main characters arent each others first love bc they struggle sm to get over themm. I know its realistic and thats why i still read it but it does something to my brain where i keep thinking they still dont love each other up to that first love level when my heart says they do but my brain says they dont. reading about first love not being endgame is like drinking a full vodka shot

In this situation it's frustrating, but speaking from personal experience I am far more in love with my current partner ((we just had our 4 year anniversary)) than I ever was with the first person I thought I was in love with.
Shit still hurt 'cause I was led around by the guy for over a decade, but after a lil bit of introspection when I cut contact with him I realized I had basically rose-tinted glasses our entire time together lol
My current partner tho?? If anything ever happened to force us apart I would literally set myself on fire in the middle of an interstate highway.
erm the endgame guy was barley in the story
real legend, doesn’t need to exert effort man just being real
more like the author didnt exert effort into the writing or development but it is what it is
Legend author making ton of illegal reader fans mad
if thats what makes an author a legend then big yikes (☆▽☆)