I hope people realize that it's not only gay men who sometimes marry without love. Sure, in these types of stories it happens since its bl, but there's so many cases, more than you'd think of people marrying without being in love. Not just men too, recently in a tiktok video of this women going to her engagement party saying "when I'm still not over my ex" and the comments flooded with men and women comments saying "real". It's sad and scary to see how many people do this when they still have someone else in mind, but I don't think its right just to single out gay people that might do this when it seems like alot of people do it. My parents were actually an arranged marriage, even though they may not love each other like in dramas or books we read, they still have a good relationship together, it may be sad or not ideal for people but that's the world we live in sadly.
Finished reading the raws and GRRRRRR. This is why I kinda hate first love tropes esp when the main characters arent each others first love bc they struggle sm to get over themm. I know its realistic and thats why i still read it but it does something to my brain where i keep thinking they still dont love each other up to that first love level when my heart says they do but my brain says they dont. reading about first love not being endgame is like drinking a full vodka shot
In this situation it's frustrating, but speaking from personal experience I am far more in love with my current partner ((we just had our 4 year anniversary)) than I ever was with the first person I thought I was in love with.
Shit still hurt 'cause I was led around by the guy for over a decade, but after a lil bit of introspection when I cut contact with him I realized I had basically rose-tinted glasses our entire time together lol
My current partner tho?? If anything ever happened to force us apart I would literally set myself on fire in the middle of an interstate highway.
the people who dont see an issue with shizumi and his boss playing with his underwear, imagine if it was a male boss playing a woman's underwear from work? wake up, its creepy and inappropriate whether ur single or in a relationship
Yeah and ppl blame minato for overreacting. I'd hella mad too if my lover act nonchalant like that. I doubt ppl who sees this as a normal thing had ever in relationship
that was what i was saying like that was alr a wholeass reason for minato to go riot but he did not and chose to cool his head down instead but people saw it as him only running away omfg
fr like idk how people even see that as normal, i refuse to be gaslight into thinking thats regular behavior lol
its sad ppl will always sympathize with the top but never the bottoms
it’s always the air-headed top who’s right but never the traumatized bottom, really sad, honestly speaking