Kind of a rant but whatevs We all know how prominent sa/rape is in bl's and shoujo but i'm not here to talk about the romanization. What i want to talk about is how the SA of a character is always used to make the ml 'the hero'. I hate the "please make me forget about him" type shit authors pull, like no you shouldn't be having sex with someone t......
Short answer yes. Long answer : your first time won't be fireworks and sparkles for so many reasons but it can definitely be something good if it's with the right person and when you feel ready. In order to make it better and to make sure you have a better experience I would definitely advise you (and anyone who needs it) to learn what feels good......
SA in bls/shoujo