I don't think Hakdo being with Sangho even though he's not completely over Doochi is disrespectful at all.
They started their thing really casually, so feelings didn't really matter, and then it developed naturally into what it is now: a mature relationship where both parts are well aware of the other's feelings for one another and for other people. Sangho knows about Hakdo's crush on Doochi and he chose to be with Hakdo anyway. Hakdo never forced him to do anything and never, not even once, played or lied to him.
Hakdo doesn't use Sangho as a distraction but rather he really cares for Sangho and is really sweet to him. It is possible for someone to like two people at the same time, you know... So I don't understand why some of you guys are being harsh on Hakdo. His conduct with Sangho is perfect, even though their situation is not ideal.
And even if Hakdo ended up breaking up with Sangho in the future, I believe he would do it in a mature and respectful way. He wouldn't ghost Sangho or anything like it, they would probably talk about it and clear everything out - like they've been doing for the whole story now.
So, yeah, I know this situation with Doochi can be hard and upsetting to Sangho, but Hakdo is not disrespectful to him whatsoever.
I wasn't saying Hakdo was inherently cruel or disrespectful but in the context of the situation with Sangho, he kinda is. Sure it started off casual but after Sangho confessed he like Hakdo it became serious- this means Sangho sees Hakdo as number one in his heart. If Hakdo can't reciprocate the feeling he should say so and imo stop the relationship to stop Sangho from futher suffering (as we see him crying in the last two chapters) because in Hakdos heart Doochi is clearly number one not Sangho. And because Hakdo can't be with Doochi he's instead with Sangho, to help him get over Doochi (so I mean in a sense kinda using him, but sure maybe he can learn to love him one day as much as he did Doochi and as much as Sangho does but currently he doesn't. And I wouldn't want to be someone's second choice, so for everyone to be in a more healthier and happier place (e.g. Sangho partner seeing him as number one and Hakdo getting over Doochi and ready to find new love) for now they should break up
I hope this doesn't come across as disrespectful but I honestly believe you should reread the story again. A lot of what you write here is simply not canon. He isn't using Sangho to get over Doochi. That's impossible because he had decided to start a relationship with Sangho before he decided to get over Doochi.
I already explained to you in your post why Sangho isn't just a replacement for Doochi.
What you're describing here isn't Playtime with Hakdo, you're describing a generic BL story.
But Hakdo likes Sangho (maybe doesn't love, but likes) and Sangho is good to him. There's no reason why Hakdo should break up with Sangho.
If Sangho is uncomfortable with Hakdo's feelings for Doochi, the way I see it, he should be the one doing the break up. But I must say that I don't think he is. He already said that he likes the fact that Hakdo liked Doochi for so long. And in this last chapter he was wondering if himself and Hakdo would part ways sometime due to their being in different phases of life, Doochi had not much to do with it.
But anyways, I've been in Sangho's shoes, you know. I chose to stay with my girlfriend while she was taking her time to get over her ex and once she did, our relationship - that had already started, just like Hakdo and Sangho's - went on perfectly. So I think that's whats happening in this story. Hakdo does like Sangho, he does want to be with him, but he still has some lingering feelings for someone else that he has to get over and he actually is willing to do so.
I don't know if you guys have read the raws or something, but in my opinion, you are just anticipating a drama that may not even come to exist, you know... I think this story is developping beautifully and I just wish some of you guys wouldn't curse their relationship or judge Hakdo yet.
How is it impossible everyone hakdo has been with while being in love with Doochi is simple a replacement and if you refer to this page http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/playtime_with_hakdo/uu/playtime_with_hakdo-chapter-42/25/ you'll see his sister recommendeds him to find someone else which he already has to get over Doochi
I'm not really cursing their relationship but I'm just judging on what I've seen so far what I think would be the best solution. I'd rather not want hakdos happiness at the expense of Sanghos current happiness because you should live in the now, you don't know when everything could end- its late 2am and I'm a little delirious I'll probably finish my reply later (I mean idk if you care about my opinion but lol)
As for the first part about everyone just being a replacement:
Again, that's not Playtime with Hakdo, that's a generic BL storyline in which Hakdo is the "bad guy" who's only using poor Sangho. However, nothing in the story itself actually suggests that Hakdo is only using Sanhgo.
His sister might think that he should find someone else but his sister is the one representing the people who think you should only have feelings for one person. She's representing the more conservative point of view when it comes to relationships which is neither shared by Hakdo nor by Sangho.
Sangho and Doochi are two separate people and Hakdo's feelings for those two aren't necessarily connected. Of course it's not possible to separate those feelings completely but he can have feelings for Doochi and feelings for Sangho without using one of them as a replacement for the other one.
But Sangho is not unhappy at all with the relationship he has with Hakdo now. He's also not uncomfortable with Hakdo's feelings for Doochi. And there is also no reason to think they're going to break up in the future because of these lingering feelings of Hakdo... So I don't really get where you got the idea breaking up now being the best for them from, but I want to understand, so I'll wait for you to finish your reply.
Have a good night of sleep (:
oh my this is even better than I expected
I picked this one up because of your comment and it became one of my favourites ever, so thank you so much (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
you're welcome dear