What an awful guy! She should prolly go report him for harasment!
That's why they say... noone's born a villain. Circumstances and struggles make them fight for their good even at the cost of others.
So she is gonna put so much effort for a man who divorced her just because she didn't wear a fuckin dress!!
Im pretty sure. It was the fact that he wanted to marry a feminine girl not a cold knight.
then his dumb ass shouldn't have wasted her time by marrying her in the first place.
Lol this isnt modern times. Also it has no context. It maybe a political matter. Every has preferences.
Even thought he did have preferences like every human. He still tried to work it out for 5yrs.
There must be a reason for why the FL wants him back. Why she decided to change things to keep him.
She also seems pretty selfish herself. Unyielding. Marriage works both ways and i guess she's learning she shouldn't have been so stubborn all her life so shes working to making things work this time.
If he was a major dick and a cheater. I doubt she would be trying to get him back.
She said that he gave her a cold shoulder the entire time. He showed kindness to everyone except her. He really shouldn't have married her if he had a different preference.
He still cheated
And if he didn’t love her for who she is then that’s on him. Not her. She shouldn’t have to change herself and suddenly act and dress to societal norms for him to suddenly like her.
Like it’s not even appearance. It was her clothing that caused his eyes to stray
Well if it was so horrible. Why is she begging for a second chance?
It never said he gave her the cold shoulder. It was that he is normal attitude didnt extend to her and that could also be because of how she treated him.
Marriage is a partnership and he did say he tried for 5yrs, but please devorce.
If he was so horrrible she should also divorce him. The argument can go both ways, but at least he let her go, but she was unwilling to let go.
Your comment is both funny and weird. First you say there is ''no context'' but then you say ''he still tried to work it out for 5 years''. How do you know he tried to work it out; do YOU have context? Because the context we were given was that he DID NOT try to work it out; he was cold to her the whole time. Did we read the same chapter, because it sounds like you didn't read it at all.
I also laugh at how you call her selfish when you also said that there is not context available. How do you know she's selfish? Because she wears a suit? Because she works? Because she's upset her husband divorced her through a letter? Because that's literally ALL WE KNOW ABOUT HER, lol.
Are you ok? Just looking at the opposite sex is cheating? You might as well only like blind partners.
Also i did reread it again and theres no mentioned of him not liking her because she didn't wear a dress. This is what the FL thinks.
He looked at another girl while frowning and *BAM* that considered cheating? I feel sorrry for the person who you have a relationship with.
We glorify individuality and freedom, but when you are married. You should also think of your partner as well. It never said he would lover her if she wore a dress. It never said he cheated.
They should have talked about thier problems. Most likely like all other drama everything is most likely a misunderstanding.
Srry didn’t mean to piss u off lol
True, that’s what the FL thinks, and because she wore a dress this time, his eyes didn’t wander ╮(￣▽￣)╭
He cheated five years along the road, or rather, filed divorce papers thanks to another person seducing him, that’s what I meant
In marriage you have to make sacrifices, but isn’t it more of compromising sacrifices? Or compromise promises? I wouldn’t know since I’m not married. But apparently he ignored her and never even tried in the relationship, because she didn’t wear a dress to the wedding(or some other reason) Why should she have to change for this person who doesn’t even look her way? And even if he actually cared about her, then he had a very peculiar way of doing so, or it’s no wonder she didn’t notice it.
True, it’s shoujo, there's rlly nothing to expect in terms of communication.
You didn't say this to me, but I'm going to reply because I don't agree with you
The fact that she wants a second chance does not mean that he wasn't horrible. People go back to their asshole partners ALL THE TIME. I find your point here super invalid and weird.
The story literally said he was not kind to her (''kindness to her was an exception''), which implies he was cold/detached/uncaring when it comes to her. You say it could be because of how she treated him, but that is not the context we were given so that assumption is something you've pulled out of nowhere and therefore irrelevant. What we do know is that he was cold, which to us gives us a reason to find her remarriage to him stupid. That's what we're upset and annoyed about.
Again, you do not know if he tried for 5 years. All he said is that ''he reached his limit'' that is not the same as ''he has done everything he could before reaching his limit''. In other words: you don't know if he did do everything he could for their marriage. You are again making an assumption that is completely baseless and without looking at the context WE WERE GIVEN. What we are told is that he wasn't kind to her, that is the context, so that is what you roll with. With that context, it is fair to assume that he did not try in their relationship.
You're right about one thing: If he was so horrible she SHOULD divorce him, but the fact that she didn't does not mean he was not horrible! People are often in abusive relationships even when the best thing is for them to leave (not to say that their relationship was definetly abusive, the point is simply that just because she didn't leave don't mean he wasn't a dick).
You say there was no mention of him not liking her because she didn't wear a dress, but that the FL does think that was the issue. Then you've just made our point!
The FL tells us that the suit was the issue, we were given that information as the audience and she's ACTING BASED ON THAT INFORMATION. We know she's acting based on that information, too, because she decides to wear a dress at the end. SHE believes that's why he choose another woman while they were married, in other words: she's deciding to go back with a man on the basis--on the belief--that he is someone who thinks poorly of a woman wearing a suit to her wedding. So our reaction to her deciding to go back to someone, while she believes that he thinks should wear a dress is: "bitch what? You're stupid."
It's not about whether it's true if he wanted her or did not want her because of the suit; it's about her THINKING he did and STILL WANTING TO BE WITH A GUY WHO THINKS LIKE THAT.
This is off-topic of me, but you're nice for apologizing lmfao, cause I don't think you should have to apologize to someone who decides to give backhanded personal attacks by asking you if 'you're ok' or saying ''that you might as well only like blind people'' just because of an argument you made about a comic :))
Lol sorry, i dont mean to sound crazy.
You should reread this. It never said he cheated. It never said he did anything to any females. But the divorce did say he couldnt take it anymore and please devorce.
Even if he was seduced or if someone liked him it doesnt mean he cheated. This just mean another women was after him. That is probably why the FL is more mad at the other women and not her hubby.
Yes marrige goes both ways. It does seem both of them didnt talk to each other. I dont see signs of either of them trying to work it out. Did he ignore her? This was never stated. It just said his normal manner was never extended to her and that is also a result of thier relationship dynamic.
Yes marriage must have compromise, but you dont see her comproming either and maybe this is one of her deep regret thats why she wanted a second chance and redo to her marriage.
I just want to say. This is very little to go on. There really isnt much info to go on. I wish i knew more but korean novels are very hard to find a complete verson of. I hear they will sue translators.
Everything can be twisted into anything you want because you want to see it that way. There is very little info so you yourself dont have any proof.
It never said he was unkind or cold. You just added that in. It just said that kindness never extended to her. That is incredibly vague. That could just mean he could give a jacket to a cold person or whatever kind acts he did. He didnt do these things to her. These kindness can also be considered being a gentleman, but she was a knightly person. Most likely she didnt need these gentle act of kindness because she was a tough knight.
Also he did try. I didnt say he tried his hardest, but for him to reach his limit doesnt mean it happened over night. They seem to be having issues already ever since marriage, but he stuck with her. There are no signs of him abusing her.
Also just because the female lead thinks he didnt like her because of the dress issue doesnt mean thats what happened. Thats only what she thought. If she actually talked to her husband maybe there wouldn't be any of these issue.
You should read this again because it also never said she gave him kindness either or how she worked or even tried her best. Go look for that context.
Yes because looking at someone else is cheating.... So the partner always look down or up? Lol
Lol it’s fine, I probably sounded rude anyways
I still think of him as a jerk, and I don’t see why she should change for him, I’d rather she found a better guy.
I think since he filed divorce papers with the intent of getting with someone else is something that I could not forgive if I had a husband lol
True, I think the mc could have been more understanding, but the ml also could’ve been more understanding. By how this is going I feel like mc will just keep on giving and giving with little compliance from ml.
Apparently he was kind to everyone but her, so he was probably cold and distant, maybe he didn’t ignore her, but he did treat her poorly as his spouse.
Lmao yeah, we only really have a trailer of a movie on our hands, so there's rlly no use of debating any further cuz it’s hard to tell the full story behind each character.
It's really hard to debate something from a trailer. Lol
I would think he was a jerk if he cheated and stayed with her.
If she wanted to be with someone else and start a new life. I would be wish for her happiness too.
I really dont think the novel would be about her giving and giving and never receiving. It's a shoujo style novel. She will have a happy ending.
How did he treat her poorly? Because he didnt extend his kindness? But what does that even mean? It never said he was impolite to her. Even the divorce letter seemed more of a desperate pleeding.
This is my speculation without backing. I believe his act of kindness is more of his gentlemen manner. Kinda like a shiny white knight. Who would put his coat over a puddle for his lady. However the lady is a knight herself. She can probably handle herself. So she never saw these act of kindness like holding her hand down the stairs. These romantic gestures that can also be acts of kindness.
I still think it takes two to tango. I think she is also at fault for the downfall of the marriage.
Man. I really wish i could read this. I would love to know the back story and it would be nice to see his persective. Most likely they will work things out and fall in love the second time.
OMG!!!!! I looked the review of the book and it was soo funny. I died laughing. The comments are off the charts.
https://ridibooks.com/books/777048070
So it was mainly filled with small talk. Ppl dont even know why she was reborn(or went back in time) most ppl will be cautious the 2nd time, but i guess FL isnt.
Someone said the first book was all about dresses, balls, and dancing. So im guess the issue was never addressed. Then book one was over.
There are several books but most ppl dropped it med first book.
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Yeah lol I’m not even gonna bother writing an argument for this anymore
We’re trying to get too much from just a trailer, but you’re probably right, he was probably misinterpreted lol. I just think from what we got so far, he’s in the wrong. But we'll see I suppose.
Lmaoo I’d try to read it, but I suck at Korean
The humor would be lost in me trying to translate lol
It’s good that she's not overly cautious tho, sometimes I get exasperated because the fls are too worried about something and then misunderstandings pile on top of misunderstandings on top of misunderstandings lol
Hahahaha but you gotta love the plot twist. She loves dancing and dresses. The whole comments about the novel is dresses and more dresses!!!
Hahaha idk why but i just find it so hilarious.
Hey. My husband left me possibly because i didnt wear a dress. I went back in time and i....... PARTIED LIKE IT WAS 1999. (Its and old stupid song i just had to reference.)
Idk its just so funny.
Lmao well great that it works out for her
Which song? Idk it
https://youtu.be/rblt2EtFfC4
Lol i know super random.
I was just thinking. Shes probably partying 24/7 now, while saying. You get a dress. You get a dress. We all get dresses. ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~
I did see comments of ppl complaining the real story doesnt match the promo.
Lmao a little random, but it’s pretty famous
I’ve never heard it tho, never was a fan of Prince
No kidding lol from what I’m hearing it does seem like that
She should have never got back together with him. He never loved her even at the time they married. Like wtf. If she didn't bail out on him ,that a-hole would have continued telling her that she is only woman he can love but doesn't love.
So i am guessing that she dies pretty early in her 18th life and hence, she is reborn. She meets and falls for Seohwa(ML) again but unfortunately he is till in love with her 18th life self. She is her own grestest rival i guess.
ooooooh where did you read this on?
I guessed it from the title and summary
So much crying and pity, female lead is too sensitive but i guess she is sweet.
Now this is super cringe! How they introduced ml and then fl